We are friends and I wish to go deeper with her. I ask this question is I guess trust is very important foundation for this relationship to grow.
2006-11-10 17:48:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, compliments are good, but dishonest ones aren't. Compliment her on her hair, but only if you sincerely think it looks good. Make sure that everything you tell her is the truth. Also, make sure you don't say anything that might make her think you only like her for her body. For example, instead of saying you look hot, say you look pretty. Also, don't do anything stalkerish, for example, don't call her if she didn't give you her phone number. Trust is a very important part of any relationship, and it is something that has to be earned.
2006-11-10 18:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know trust is a very sensitive issue and is something that is built slowly. It doen't just take place over night and therefore requires time to be built. You just have to prove yourself over and over again without coming off desperate. Show that you really want to gain her trust by being there for her through everything you possibly can. Girls love to be heard, so you must listen, and pay attention to what she is saying, this will show her that you are interested in knowing what she's all about. The little things in life matter and if she's a typical girl, she would love things from the heart that show your thoughts and time were put into them. Esp. if you can afford to buy her anything because you are well off, it's important to show your true feelings by being creative for example, surprise her with flowers you maybe picked up from a park as opposed to buying her a bundle of roses which she already knows you can afford, write her heartfelt poems, surprise her by cooking for her even if you feel you are the worst cook on earth, trust me she'll appreciate it and lastly, confide in her too with your own little stories, worries, joys, etc. I must add that you only do some of or all of these things if it comes from your heart and your that kinda person anyway because theres nothing as sad and painful as gaining her trust and then stopping those beautiful gestures because that will make you look like you just wanted to get her and then show your true colors after you succeeded and you don't want to come off that way. Good luck.
2006-11-11 02:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by good girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big thing that takes time to build,, be totally honest with her,,,, and the things you do around her,,,,even the people your around,,,, treat every one with respect ,,,,,it will earn you respect,,,,,
it's a long road,,,, but you need to build a relationship during that time you will build the trust,,, but she has to know your intentions,,,
2006-11-11 01:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never try to make anyone trust you. Trust is earned and takes time.
2006-11-11 01:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and respect have to be earned. If you are genuine this will be reflected by your actions.
2006-11-11 02:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you cannot MAKE anyone trust you...trust is a gift. just be the best friend you can possibly be to her. if she feels you are worthy of her trust, she'll give it to you...
2006-11-11 02:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by mr E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling the truth 100 % of the time.
OBV you can lie about non harming info.
yes your hair looks good YADA
2006-11-11 01:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself...
2006-11-11 01:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by yu g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋