the person who is loving me and me is in the same college.i donot trust in love.now he is disturbing me. i want to stop it.i know its not love its just infactuation.he is my senior.so i cant complain it
2006-11-10 17:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by molu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to tell him straight that it will not work that way. If he still disturbs you then you have to tell someone older than you are, perhaps your parents or a trusted teacher.
2006-11-10 18:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear,
just relax , and don't take tension. This is the usual thing which happens in 90 % cases of college girls.
I am a 23 years guy and i can understand the "feelings" of that guy who loves u. You are saying that "his love is not true love and only an attraction" ? how can u say this? His love may be true. And one thing, his age is 21 n urs (may be) less than 20, then, u are not enough mature of understanding the "real intenctity of true love".
So dont try to "judge his love". ok.
Now ur problem:
U can get rid of him by following these steps:
1) Just do not give attention to him
2) ignore his activities.
3) do not create a big scene by giving him a slap in front of others (as one of previous answerer suggested u)
4) if u dont love him then just tell him right now, just go ahead.
Best of luck.
urs
love_platina029
reply me if u get real love in ur life. if i wont get a reply i will understand that u dont know what is real love.
2006-11-10 19:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Karan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont love him or if you feel thats not true love you can tell him directly that you are interested in this love relation. ask him to remain as a good frend. if he keeps on saying the same thing just ignore him. or you can tell him that you parents has already found boy for you. or your marriage is already fixed with boy in your childhood.
hope you wil come out ofthis
take care
lins
2006-11-12 16:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sure that it isn't love but infatuation. Besides you don't believe in love. So confront him and say politely but firmly that his association or overtures are not desirable to you. That he must stop. And if he is not prepared to listen, of course you can complain against any nuisance. You have the right.
2006-11-10 18:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him at ur problem.explain it to him...tell him that u dont like being disturbed...be bold n tell him ur opinion on love and that u dont like getting in such relationships before wedding an atleast not this age coz u want to concentrate on ur studies...take ur best pals help...she can accompany u....all the best....
2006-11-12 08:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in an rather solid words that you're literally not in touch, he's too previous for you and likewise tell him to give up following you round.. confirm you've some witness modern-day once you confront him.
2016-11-29 00:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y dont u give him a Rapchic Slap infront of all ur collegues
2006-11-10 17:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cyber Crime is Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)JUST BE PATIENCE AND DONT TALK TO ANYBODY
2) JUST TELL HIM U R NOT FIT TO LOVE
2006-11-10 18:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u drunk?
2006-11-10 17:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by ckp1234567 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋