She says she likes me, yet i saw her at our dance tointe, grindin with this one guy and she was smiling, then she saw me, shoved the guy away and came to me and i asked her about it. she said she diddnt even know him further than taht he was a freind of one of her freinds. other times, shes grabbing for my hand to hold, or my arm to hold onto and tlks to me on the phone ALOT. sometimes, she makes me feel like the lickeiest man alive, and others, the most jealous. she even went to anouther schools's homecomming with a freind after going with me to mine. she said he was jsut a freind and it diddnt mean anyhting. -_- : ( i need help, badly. All i think about is her, (in a non preverted way) but i dont think she feels the same. she says she does, but by the way she acts, i just dont know...
2006-11-10 17:49:01 · 13 answers · asked by Duff M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant "forget her" as you all are saying. i dont know if she knows shes doing this, but shes constantly playing mind games with me. maybe im just too jealous?
2006-11-10 18:00:49 · update #1
and you will never know if you dont try, go for it
2006-11-10 17:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this girl will ultimately do your head in. Been there already and the longer it goes on the more it will hurt.
She went back to her ex in the end. What really helped me the most was taking a holiday away with a good mate and changing the environment. It gave me fresh perspective and I could see it from non biased eyes. Never an easy situation, so best of luck
2006-11-11 02:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the grammar you used, and the way you portrayed the things you asked, I would have to say that this girl is young...she is not thinking the way you guys are. She wants a simple life...not a relationship. You guys are all young. You, are probably having your first crush. If you explore, and read into it she's a normal teenage girl. You guys, at your age, shouldn't even be thinking about wives and the future, unless it involves schooling and degrees.
2006-11-11 02:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey come on !! You are young and just experiencing the games the opposite sex like to play. Why shouldn't she dance with someone else? she maybe looking for a reaction from you. Just say to her "If you were my girl I wouldn't like you grinding with someone else like that" you sound like you like her a lot and so you should ask her if she wants to be your girl - good luck
2006-11-11 01:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the type of girl that will turn you into OJ Simpson or a suicide. If you can't be totally objective about the situation, don't trust your own judgment. Run and don't look back.
2006-11-11 02:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be grateful ure not in a serious relationship with her.i cant imagine how u would possibly want to have one with her.i dont think she makes a good partner.and im very sure she wil have a bad reputation flirting here and there.i think she just want to score with guys.
2006-11-11 01:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dancing thing could just be a way of expressing herself.
try and join her on the dance floor you may enjoy yourself with her better
2006-11-11 04:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by angua1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you a hell of alot! so much so that shes scared, so every time the two of you get closer she keeps you at bay. she also may think what you're thinking...that you don't like her as much as you say you do. basically she doesn't want to get hurt so shes keeping her options open...as cruel as that sounds. you need to reassure her that you're not out to hurt her.
2006-11-11 02:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by ophelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very immature, find someone a bit less fickle and forget her.
2006-11-11 01:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by kpk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be just friends. Take a chance
2006-11-11 01:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply if you like her say I LIKE YOU
that's all
never press your feelings inside yourself
if you tell what you about others then you will feel much better that earlier to them
thanks
2006-11-11 01:57:59 · answer #11 · answered by KAUSH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋