On Friday, I had a great date with a guy that I've been seeing for two months. (We're both 28.) On Monday, I sent him a text. No response. On Tuesday, I left him a message. No response. Today, I sent him a text. Again, no response. The reason I've been trying to reach him is because a couple of weeks ago, we made a date for next Saturday to go to a concert in NY. I wanted to make sure he bought his tickets because I got mine.
I don't understand what's going on. We didn't have a fight or anything and he seemed happy when he left on Friday. My friend says not to worry about it. I can't help thinking the worst and my feelings are really hurt. What the heck is going on?
2006-11-10 18:11:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it would seem that you have 2 choices here. 1. You can keep calling him and getting ignored and your feelings hurt. Or 2. Go ahead to the concert. Hell take someone else....(as a friend). If he's there just tell him you tried calling and he never returned your calls so you thought he wasn't interested. The phone line does work both ways. Ya'll both are adults according to your ages, but seem like high-school kids. So go on and have a good time and if it is meant to be it will be if not then you had a good time at a concert.
2006-11-10 18:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gut is right. As a man if I did that, it would be because I don't want to go for the concert either I'm broke or have other plans that I didn't think of.
Rest assured he will show up after the date and bring up a hair rising excuse.
when a man ignores your texts and all, he actually means that you are not that mporatnat, regardles of the excuse he brings up later. Remember that, they are all the same - sadly. sorry.
2006-11-11 02:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell I don't know! How can any of us know what's going on with him. For all you know, he could be in a hospital. Do what I would do- He won't answer is phone? He won't respond to your text? Go to his house or his place of work. Say, "look i know this looks creepy but it's not. i want to go to that concert and i don't want to invite someone else if you're not going. so i need to know if you're going." you'll be able to tell by how he reacts to your sudden appearence whether or not he's through with you. if you sense that he is, quickly leave the premesis. ask no questions- just get out and get started moving on.
2006-11-11 02:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, something could be going on with him to keep him away from his phone. Or maybe his phone just isn't working. I've been in a couple situations like that, and worried that the guys changed their minds about me, just to find out they weren't able to contact me.
2006-11-11 02:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by LivingDeadKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is dont over analyze things.... that'll get ya in trouble guys dont like that and sometimes as women do that. just relax.. do u know where he is? send him box of candy or whatever with a note jst as reminder bout concert and how uexcited u r bout going with him.and see if u get a response. call him....dont just text. and then sit back and relax if he wants u he'lll come to you . even though i know its harder than it sounds,
2006-11-11 02:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his phone is disconnected or he might not have had a "great date" with you. Why don't you go to his house and ask him face to face what is wrong?
2006-11-11 02:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Burford Bigelow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened 2 me - he was getting back together with his ex-girlfriend.
2006-11-11 02:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you....hurts..I know...have a good cry, then get over it.
2006-11-11 06:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Joie de Vivre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt like you anymore.
2006-11-11 02:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋