Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

when i call her i say, hey baby, or her beutifull. when she calls me she says. heyy,.? it makes me feel really bad. i just wished she would treat me the same way.

2006-11-10 17:04:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive dated someone for 2 yrs. Ive known him for about 10y rs..I cheated on him about 7 years ago, and I found out that he has cheated on me (lately). I have moved away to another state, and the person he cheated on me with, his best female friend, still lives near him. Before I found out he was cheating, I was suspicious because "all of a sudden" I couldn't reach him by phone for a month. We talked once or twice for about 5 minutes. The last time I talked to him, I told him that I knew he was cheating and he said he would call me back. He has been calling me, but I haven't picked up the phone. I just "see" him messing around with that girl whenever he's not with me. Which is all his free time because im not in the same state. We were supposed to get married, and left the state I was in to better myself, and prepare for our union.I need to know if I should talk to him and give him a chance to do right by me, or if I should just continue in my "moving on"...

2006-11-10 17:04:13 · 6 answers · asked by Tsmoove 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend and I became "friends with benefits" and ended up sleeping together twice, on two different occasions. I let my emotions get the best of me and ended up really falling for him. I sat down with him and told him that I could no longer be involved with the whole "benefits" thing because I couldn't handle it emotionally & I never thought I'd become "that girl". I know I did the right thing for me, that's not the problem. He said, "If you don't want to fool around that's fine, but I don't want this to change our friendship..I still want you to come over and hang out." He also said that he felt like an a$$hole, but I told him there was no reason for him to. That was about a week ago and I have yet to hear from him since. Do you think he just lost all interest or do you think he's afraid to approach me? I stood up to him letting him know that the whole 'fooling around' and sleepign with each other thing was something I just couldn't do anymore. Maybe he is intimidated?

2006-11-10 17:03:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is a woman who works at a place I go to everyother day. Occasionally, I see her working there. About 8months ago, I saw her working and approached her once and said a few things. I rarely see her there and whenever I do she is always busy. Last week, I introduced myself to her and asked for her phone number. She said she was engaged and I immediately left after that... She passed by me the other day and she wanted to talk to me. I would not talk to her because she said she is engaged. What's up with that?

I am not a womanizer and I am honest.
Do most women not give out their phone numbers after a brief conversation. Just curious..

2006-11-10 17:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by robert f 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy was in band with me. We were riding on a float (not so much a float as a giant wheelbarrow attached to a truck.) for Veteran's day parade. Some people threw candy up on the cramped space where we were standing. I picked on up and asked if anyone wanted it, because I didn't like that kind (thank goodness it landed on my CLEAN flute case.) The guy turns to me and says, "I do!" When I tried to give it to him, he said, "Put it in my mouth." I said, "Eew, no!" But I did anyways. The boy who did that is normally shy. I was wondering-- was that flirting or not?

2006-11-10 17:01:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 17:00:34 · 20 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

i went into the bridal shop just to get some ideas and the sales woman talked me into trying on some dresses and then i found the perfect one and bought it, however i want to lose some weight before the wedding so i was wondering if it would be a problem altering the dress if i lost a few dress sizes.

2006-11-10 16:59:32 · 16 answers · asked by Ditsey24 2 in Weddings

and guys who sing while playin..
yes / no ?
why ?
thanks alot...

2006-11-10 16:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, i like this guy friend tht i have, and latly i found out tht my friend tht i talk 2 abt him likes him 2. she tries 2 make it so i can't talk 2 him ( i sit in front of him in a class and towards the end is when i talk 2 him, but she stands there and listens so i can't tlk 2 him.) i told her not 2 stand there, but she kept whining in class, so i let her stand there. after class i told her not 2, and she said, " it's not fair! u get 2 talk 2 him all the time, and i don't!" wht should i do?

2006-11-10 16:57:19 · 17 answers · asked by kellycfan 1 in Friends

2006-11-10 16:56:59 · 4 answers · asked by tampabaybucczmale 1 in Friends

I have no idea why but i just found out my cousin whom im close to is 5 mths pregnant and i want it to. im only 19 and i know i cant handle it but... i dont see the big deal i have a bf who loves me and i plan on marrying and he plans on marrying me. is it so wrong ot want?

2006-11-10 16:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by intolerablethirst 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we started going out about a week ago, and it has gone down hill.
I really like her and i want it to work out. Her friends say it is some family troubles and she doesn't talk to me about any of it. Her friends
tell me that she really likes me but sometimes i wonder.
(I'm 15)

2006-11-10 16:56:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I did the thing I didn't want to do. While my bf. was yet again ignoring me and playing video games I stripped naked and walked into the room. He didn't even turn his head. Then I stood there for a minute and he got all irritated and asked "what?"
That answers my question as to what he likes more, eh?
That's a bit of a mood killer. I suppose life is painful.

2006-11-10 16:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by r r 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 16:55:09 · 4 answers · asked by krnscales 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm kinda confused what is online sex what do people even do. I mean I think people should know about these things so they know what people mean when they ask them to have online sex.

2006-11-10 16:55:08 · 6 answers · asked by macluvzlabs 2 in Singles & Dating

i work at resturant & out of no where a fellow male co worker and i started to show interest in eachother. we then continued to start hooking up for a couple of weeks. we both were into eachother but i knew he liked me more then physically but whenever i confronted him about it, he got a little stand-offish. so then a few nights later i got invited out but two other male co workers (both know the guy i am with and are buddies with him) i had a great time, drank some, and ended up 'leaving with one of them'. all we did was kiss, i was drunk, who cares. so then OF COURSE the next day i get a voice mail from my hook-up saying he knows what happened the other night and he cancels out plans for that night. MIND YOU, if he wasnt that it to me, why would he care so much? so then we dont speak for a couple days then the following day we kinda started to flirt again he seemed cool and all was good. then last night as i am working he comes strolling in with 2 girls and ignores me. what the hell?

2006-11-10 16:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im confused he is always bothering my closest friends [saying hi to them, hitting them playfully] but i thought we had something going on, i mean we flirt but we both seem nervous when we do it. What do you think?

Additional Details

2 days ago
you really think hes a playa?....i was thinking maybe he was just trying to get close to me? i dont know :(

2006-11-10 16:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 16:50:55 · 14 answers · asked by sudhir_100ac 1 in Friends

I am overweight, but other than that, not too bad in the looks department. Have a good personality, and enjoy having fun. Would you date someone like me?

2006-11-10 16:50:54 · 12 answers · asked by saucylilbrat43 2 in Singles & Dating

do you guys ever look in the mirror and see things you dont want to see? like you notice the imperfections and think your ugly but then helluh other people are like "ugly, are you kidding?!!?" thats excatly how i feel. like its weird.. in the mirror i dont like how i look but other people do. do you guys have the same problem? is this normal? sorry, im just a clueless teenager >__<

2006-11-10 16:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by xkawaii 1 in Singles & Dating

you ask him out?

2006-11-10 16:50:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl I am seeing is beautiful ,,charming, sexy, but little bit shallow ...What do you think?

2006-11-10 16:49:41 · 31 answers · asked by serene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy that I've been dating over a year, told me not too long ago that he had "fooled" around with another girl when he first met me. He told me that it was very early when he first met me & our relationship wasn't serious yet. So why would he come out & tell me now, 8 months after the fact? Had it been bugging him? When he told me, I got upset, kinda crying & asking why,& hopefully that didn't scare him to think that he can never be honest with me because of the way I reacted. What do you think?

2006-11-10 16:49:32 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm visiting my best friend, who lives 3 hours away & attends college, for her birthday. She used to live right next door to me since we've been 2, so I don't get to see her too often. We were playing "Taboo" tonight & she kept picking on her boyfriend about how much he sucks at that game. Some of the things she said were funny but it got old, I didn't say anything but he was getting annoyed. Then not even 2 seconds later, she snatched some cards away from me after a round me & my partner were talking about. She was completely rude & was like "it's my turn!". All day she's been rubbing it in about how much money her boyfriend spent on her for her b-day. I got fed up & tossed some of the cards at her & told her she was being a spoiled brat. She took off in her car somewhere & knowing the way she is, she probably won't talk to me tonight or tomorrow before I leave. Maybe I shouldn't have throw the cards but she was hitting that last nerve. How should I handle the rest of this trip?

2006-11-10 16:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by bri 3 in Friends

My sons father cheated, well he said he never toutched her he just talked to her anyways we were split up for a good 8months now hes wanting to get back toghter so im just wondering from other people is it true?

2006-11-10 16:48:20 · 22 answers · asked by troynov17 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you guys want in a girlfriend/boyfriend?

I want a boyfriend that would hold my hand standing in line for something. A guy to hold my hand no matter how far we are walking. A guy that will walk up to me and give me a huge hug and a gentle kiss in the end. A guy that can hold me when i am sad. A guy that can cheer me up by just smiling.

2006-11-10 16:47:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey.. i am asian, and in my country thiers a different way or dating girls and i heard that thiers also a different way of dating american girls.. can anyone help me.. like how to date american girls?.. by the way, i am a teen

2006-11-10 16:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

well we're not going out yet but he's my exboyfriend and we're about to go out again. i really like him and he likes me too. but my best friend told me that he keeps calling her to talk about other nasty stuff with her....he even asked her if it was ok to sleep with someone and still be friends...and she would go along with everything to see what kind of guy he is...should i still talk to him?

2006-11-10 16:46:09 · 17 answers · asked by jackie babe 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy i like is really sensitive, but has a huge macho side. i don't want to make him think i am too pushy, but i can't wait anymore for him to make up his mind. how do i gently make the first move?

2006-11-10 16:46:07 · 8 answers · asked by garmaijowee 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter who when she got married 21 years ago has treated me like a stranger that she didn't even like . She has failed to treat me with any respect at all. Now after all this cruel treatment from her I am quiet sick of her and don't even want to ever see her again. She can travel 100 miles to see her daddy(who quiet frankly does not care anything about anyone except himself). Yet she can not come 3 miles to see her mom. At the same time it was my fault(for whatever reason that her dad did not come to see her). She has meddled between me and her brothers. I have even thought back to when I almost lost her before she was born and thought how much better off I would be if I had. What do I do to put her out of my thoughts and keep her out of my life and my business. I don't even like her anymore! I would have visited with my grandchildren more if she had acted differently. Now I don't even care about doing that. She is teaching them to act like she does.

2006-11-10 16:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships