i work at resturant & out of no where a fellow male co worker and i started to show interest in eachother. we then continued to start hooking up for a couple of weeks. we both were into eachother but i knew he liked me more then physically but whenever i confronted him about it, he got a little stand-offish. so then a few nights later i got invited out but two other male co workers (both know the guy i am with and are buddies with him) i had a great time, drank some, and ended up 'leaving with one of them'. all we did was kiss, i was drunk, who cares. so then OF COURSE the next day i get a voice mail from my hook-up saying he knows what happened the other night and he cancels out plans for that night. MIND YOU, if he wasnt that it to me, why would he care so much? so then we dont speak for a couple days then the following day we kinda started to flirt again he seemed cool and all was good. then last night as i am working he comes strolling in with 2 girls and ignores me. what the hell?
2006-11-10 16:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just wanted to make you jealous. He really seems like he cares about you and is upset that you went out with 2 of his buddies and ended up going away with one of them. Even thought it was just kisses he is upset. He was also stand offish because he is afraid of comment. You need to talk to him in a calm manner. Let him know how you feel and if he wants to see you again he will.
2006-11-10 17:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is upset with himself, because he moved to slow. And he is only trying to make you jealous, he may feel you think you are a player and he can be if he want to after all you are not the only girl in the world. He is really just deeply hurt, because he thought you and he had something special which is true if you guys were in the getting to know each other stage. You made youself seem insincere and not genuine and try to blame it on alcohol and brush it off as no big deal. That was pretty shady you should apologize and see where things lie. If there is nothing there move on. Dating co-workers is never a good idea if things go wrong you have to see them everday and watch your back.
2006-11-10 17:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, its obvious he has feelings for you. But, did it bother you when you saw him with the two females? In all reality, neither party could get mad at the other because you guys aren't in a "committed" relationship, so, you guys are free to date and kiss whoever. If both of you are feeling some type of way about the other out with someone other than yourselves, talk about what you guys want to come out of whatever you have going on.
2006-11-10 17:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by confused1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Stay away from co-workers. You have to work with them.
#2 It sounds like you are both young and still playing the field so relax and let this one go.
2006-11-11 18:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Cybil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult men have their very own stuff to handle. classes do suck- i'm no longer denying that. yet, i will take cramps over a public *****. Dudes are interestingly continually sneaking around attempting to shift issues around so it is not glaring. teen adult men have lots testosterone of their platforms that they are able to purely be doing homework and right this moment, that's like, "hi down there, what are you doing?" (That has befell to adult men i be conscious of). additionally, if a dude has a ***** in college, anybody laughs at him. If a lady has a leak on her era, the women folk sympathize and the lads are terrified. additionally, women get a good option of what it capability to be a lady. There are far extra help communities for women than for adult men. Boys advance up with out fathers, with unfavourable portrayals of adult men and fathers in incredibly some media (fathers are continually incompetent while in comparison with the mothers, or in simple terms desire intercourse, etc) and no education in a thank you to incredibly grow to be a guy. i'm fortunate sufficient to be with a guy who's what i could call a gentleman of the outdated college. we are equivalent, yet we are additionally distinctive. We supplement one yet another's adjustments. even nonetheless, maximum adult men are not so fortunate and are not getting the good male community that they desire. additionally, they get drafted. In Israel, women get drafted too, yet for a year under boys do. Boys have their very own issues. All issues seen, i could particularly be a lady. (additionally, while that's chilly, we are able to thieve their jackets. And as quickly as we are snuggling watching a action picture or enjoying video games, women get to thieve the blanket. And boys purchase us stuff. and that they in many cases make the 1st circulate romantically. And...you get my element. women have it extra effective.)
2016-12-17 08:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if he is trying to get back at you and trying to make you feel jealous, dont let it bother you. Just pretend it didnt bother you i am pretty sure that will make him think twice. But i think he still has a thing for you, so just keep flirting with him and make him want you more.
2006-11-10 16:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The HELL with him. He is about games. Co workers are not good boyfriends.
2006-11-10 16:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Crybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really liked you and he was turned off by you going with the other guy. He was probably trying to make you feel worse about your actions. (personally he sounds like a whore from my perspective maybe he is a nice guy). if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out.
(you don't have to listen to me I'm just a teenager myself)
2006-11-10 17:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he was after you just for sex and when he didn't notice you were interested in him that way he went out with someone he thought he might be able to have sex with him that., or he really has issues and you don't need a man in your life like that any way so find some one and let him be. that is just my personal thoughts
2006-11-10 17:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest u let him know that nothing other kissing happened if that doesn't work just give him his space and let him come to you.
2006-11-10 16:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by gatorsun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋