the guy i like is really sensitive, but has a huge macho side. i don't want to make him think i am too pushy, but i can't wait anymore for him to make up his mind. how do i gently make the first move?
2006-11-10 16:46:07 · 8 answers · asked by garmaijowee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahh, the shy guy. I can sympathize, as I am one. My advice: He probably likes you a lot, but isn't confident enough to make the first move to ask you out. Be strong and go for what you want. Ask him out. Chances are he'll say yes and be very relieved you just went for it. Even if he doesn't, you'll be proud of yourself for going for a relationship you desire.
My advice is to take the pressure off of him and just be up front about it. You'll never know if it's the right thing unless you do it.
2006-11-10 16:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Big G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him, if he wants to hell kiss back if he dont then there u go. The worst hat can happen is he says no. Otherwise someone else will come along and steal him and ull regret not making ur move.
2006-11-10 16:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by RUDY THE RUDE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get touchy, if you start touching him during a conversation he would notice instantly but dont over do it! by that i mean dont give him a massage when you are asking what time is it but put your finger on his wrist and ask what time is it ^_^ good luck
2006-11-10 16:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean get the first date i have had girls just phone me up and ask me out.
if you mean intimate stuff then just do it kiss him and if he does not seem to warm up fast enough show him by your actions what you want .
2006-11-10 16:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caress the inside of his thigh as he is driving, then hold his hand and rub his fingers with yours. When you see he is responding to your touches, take his hand and suck on one of his fingers. If he doesn't get the message by then I suggest you lose him forever!!!
2006-11-10 17:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont have to be gentle just wait for the right moment and go for it
2006-11-10 16:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by dan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLM MY BOY FRIEND IS JUST LIKE THAT BUT I JUST PULL HIM TO ME AND WILL KISS HIM ETC AND HE GOES ALONG WITH IT.
2006-11-10 16:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol i dunno i let the man do it
2006-11-10 16:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly Bundy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋