A friend and I became "friends with benefits" and ended up sleeping together twice, on two different occasions. I let my emotions get the best of me and ended up really falling for him. I sat down with him and told him that I could no longer be involved with the whole "benefits" thing because I couldn't handle it emotionally & I never thought I'd become "that girl". I know I did the right thing for me, that's not the problem. He said, "If you don't want to fool around that's fine, but I don't want this to change our friendship..I still want you to come over and hang out." He also said that he felt like an a$$hole, but I told him there was no reason for him to. That was about a week ago and I have yet to hear from him since. Do you think he just lost all interest or do you think he's afraid to approach me? I stood up to him letting him know that the whole 'fooling around' and sleepign with each other thing was something I just couldn't do anymore. Maybe he is intimidated?
2006-11-10 17:03:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, my opinion is that he's afraid if he continues to see you and sleep with you, you'll develop even more feelings for him that he'll not want. Or maybe, he might be developing feelings for you and he's not sure what it means. Or, the cold hard truth is that he just don't want the fling to go on anymore because it's getting too complicated with your emotions bundle up in it. My advice is to talk to him one more time to see what he's feeling. You won't know until you try it.
2006-11-10 17:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is out the window! Sorry to say it. U guys may get along in the future, but I guarantee u that if you hang out with him alone at his place someones gonna make a move!
2006-11-11 01:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a good thing after all..maybe he is thinking about what had happened between the two if you,,,but if he is a player,,,you'll know and whether you still want to be his "FRIEND" but maybe he'll call you and start officially dating you..
you'll never know....
good luck...
2006-11-11 01:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by simon says 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... sound's like he was'nt overly keen, on the long term stuff!....
2006-11-11 01:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋