My Best Friend is Subborn. How Should I Handle This Situation?

Question

I'm visiting my best friend, who lives 3 hours away & attends college, for her birthday. She used to live right next door to me since we've been 2, so I don't get to see her too often. We were playing "Taboo" tonight & she kept picking on her boyfriend about how much he sucks at that game. Some of the things she said were funny but it got old, I didn't say anything but he was getting annoyed. Then not even 2 seconds later, she snatched some cards away from me after a round me & my partner were talking about. She was completely rude & was like "it's my turn!". All day she's been rubbing it in about how much money her boyfriend spent on her for her b-day. I got fed up & tossed some of the cards at her & told her she was being a spoiled brat. She took off in her car somewhere & knowing the way she is, she probably won't talk to me tonight or tomorrow before I leave. Maybe I shouldn't have throw the cards but she was hitting that last nerve. How should I handle the rest of this trip?

Answer 1

well,she was being annoying

when someone's being annoying,there's something in ur brain going,"it'd be so wrong to hit that person,but they're bringing it upon themselves cuz they're being so annoying"

after a while of pondering on it,u just can't help urself &...u hit the person

it is her fault that she got hit,i won't deny,but people like her (as u said) will never be able to admit that something was their fault

let her have her couple of days to cool off & stop acting like a child & call her

if she doesn't answer,then give her more time

by the 3rd time u call & no answer,give HER the chance to call u if she wants it straightened out

if she won't answer ur phonecalls by the end of the third,then she needs to grow up anyways

good luck

Answer 2

ummm. Take care of yourself, have some fun and make the best of a bad situation. If she is worthy of you friendship (still), she will apologize to you. If not, go on with life. It's unfortunate but sometimes we drift away from our old best friends. The good news, you will make many more in your life.. Good luck, and enjoy the rest of the trip...vacations should be enjoyable...

Answer 3

Your buddy can tell this female that she would desire to ask her to her wedding ceremony yet its basically going to be close friends and kinfolk seeing as the two the bride and groom have super famillies that it would fee her a fourtune to ask all of her friends. permit this different female be attentive to that its no longer basically her that may no longer being invited that there are various different friends that she would desire to ask yet only no longer adequate money for each individual to return (foodstuff fee alot) and the church/ reception place basically holds a limited quantity of travelers and the groom and her are already over their decrease.

Answer 4

Sounds like you both need a leg up on maturity........