do you guys ever look in the mirror and see things you dont want to see? like you notice the imperfections and think your ugly but then helluh other people are like "ugly, are you kidding?!!?" thats excatly how i feel. like its weird.. in the mirror i dont like how i look but other people do. do you guys have the same problem? is this normal? sorry, im just a clueless teenager >__<
2006-11-10 16:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by xkawaii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not. Normal people don't love everything about themselves. If they do it's some kind of mental problem.
Everyone thinks that they can be a little better here or little better there.
However, if you think ur totally ugly, you need to check your self esteem. It's ok to be a little unsure, but if people are telling you that you are fine, then why worry?
After all, even the best looking person in your school is not the best looking int the world, there is always someone better.
2006-11-10 17:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating yourself. It's a phase that all teenagers have to go through. You want acceptance, to be liked etc. But you know what, you'll outgrow it and one day when you are much older, you won't be bothered about such thing.Well, maybe a bit but not a lot. No one's perfect. Take it from this guy who has gone through puberty and the problems associated with teenage. You are you, your own unique self.Whatever imperfection you think you have, they make up the whole package of you. You take one out, you'll screw the "configuration/specs". You won't be you without these "imperfections".
2006-11-11 01:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be growing pains you are experiencing. When I look into the mirror I see my imperfections, but I also see what is beautiful about me. Eventually you will become more balanced in your view of yourself. If the feeling of being unattractive is overwhelming you should speak with your parents about getting professional help.
2006-11-11 00:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? I am 27 years old and I am still wondering what girls see in me, I mean I am a carbon copy of my dad when he was my age, far from babe magnet, and here's these girls calling me hot and all that and I dont see how. I would just have to say that if people say your hot, instead of trying to figure out how, run with it...if you have a girl that thinks your hot then go for it...because I have figured it out that its not what your physical appearance is, its about who YOU are inside.
2006-11-11 01:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by gremlin_98_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your own worst critic.
You notice the flaws because you are looking for them.
I have a few flaws in my appearance, but I'm pretty good looking, and I started telling myself how wonderful I look, and I feel sooooo much better about myself now.
2006-11-11 00:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is normal, but this causes your problem, your fears or pressures on how they will like you...
just be a child, accepting oneself and being with others unconsciously in physical aspects...trust me, people will like your appearance if you first accept your appearance.
2006-11-11 01:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. It's okay.
We are just so used to our own faces, that it's hard for us to see it from other people's points of views.
2006-11-11 01:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋