Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

Ive been with my bf for a year & am in love with him. The thing is, we have been having trouble with our sex life which is making both of us miserable. We use to have sex all the time, now we barely have sex once a week. We're both in our 20s. I seem to be the one turned off right now (hes not
) & its ruining our relationship. When I talk to my male friends online for long periods he gets jealous & asks if im cheating on him or talking to my "boyfriend". He says he does this bc he feels with the lack of sex he assumes Im interested in someone else. Im not. its causing him to tweak over the smallest things lately. Tonight I worked late and wasnt able to call him until late at night(4 hrs after i said I would), and he got annoyed, saying how unconsiderate I was. I love him but he is acting like a whiney ***** lately. Im afraid my lack of interest & his jealousy in response is going to make me break up with him. I havent been taking my anti dep. routinely, could this be it? thanks!

2006-11-10 16:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by kitty10185 3 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell a guy that I like him if im really shy around him? I need help. Every time I see him my heart sinks. The only problem is, is that I don't think he knows im a live. But he is so sweet and so cute. What should I do?

2006-11-10 16:44:49 · 15 answers · asked by jcpreston08 1 in Singles & Dating

Have a girlfriend that I'm rather fond of. She all the classical things you look for and such. Our last two dates have been to the movies, which are getting old. Can anyone give me some suggestions on places to go for other dates, group or not. We get along very well whether cuddling or just goofing off so just about anywhere should do, just not sure what.

2006-11-10 16:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a very good looking man who doesnt have a very good job or education


or an average looking man with an excellent education, income, and job?


just a hypothetical

2006-11-10 16:43:21 · 13 answers · asked by crazybumper g 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my GF have been dating for about a month when she told me she kisses her (male) friends hi and good-bye on the lips. she told me its just the way she is and its nto a big deal. and that i'm not gonna change her and if i loved her it woudn't be a big deal. and also that her ex didn't think its a big deal. anyway after a night of arguing about it that ended in her ahging up on me, then next day we talked and she said she woudln't kiss her friends anymore. my questions are
1) does anyone agree with her thinking its not a big deal?
2) is taht normal
3) am i out of line for telling her to stop
4) can i trust her?
5) i don't know if i can get over the fact she's been doing it for a month. it really bothers me. should i for get about it since she didn't think it was a big deal and said she would stop?

any help would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-10 16:42:29 · 22 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm just plain. I've been told that sometimes people have to "take me in small doses." But I don't know why that is. I'm just the only single girl in my apartment with nothing really going for her. I just want to know if I should be doing something extra...or doing something different. I'm sort of hitting a brick wall. Help!

2006-11-10 16:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by Sleeping2Dream 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl and i might like each other and want to get to know each other better. she says she is not sure if she has feelings for me but that she might when she gets to know me better. i think this is what casual dating for is, right? but she says as friends. so my question is what is casual dating for if not for people with potential feelings for each other getting to figure out if there are feelings there or not?

2006-11-10 16:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Obviously i punished her and sent her to her room.And i took away privileges.what else i should have done, i feel i was soft.She did said sorry to grandma.She was crying a lot because i told her dad ,my husband ? How can we solve this issue ?

2006-11-10 16:40:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can any girl date with me who is educated & Brainy and who is interested for long term commitment to my life. kindly mail me

2006-11-10 16:39:08 · 4 answers · asked by neonlasers@indiatimes.com 1 in Singles & Dating

I had recently posted a question about me liking my guyfriend. I wanted to know if should stay out of love life so I wouldn't mess it up. He just told me that he and his girlfriend broke up. I thought about our previous conversation when I told him that I like him as more than a friend. I said that I wanted him to leave her and he said if that's what I really wanted and it would make me happy then he would. I feel bad, but I doubt that it was because of me. He said he didn't want to talk anymore about it. My other friend said that it might be a chance that him and I make a connection on prom since he did ask me while he was with her. We had feelings for each other, but I guess friendship had its own rules. What should I do? Should I take advantage of this or leave to work out on its own?

2006-11-10 16:38:13 · 5 answers · asked by Ladybug 2 in Singles & Dating

it all started when we came back from a trip last summer. me, my cousin, her husband and her son went on a trip and when we came back my aunt started acting all wierd. Once when i wanted to ask him a questiuon a went near his dorr and asked him and my auint acted like i was going to rape him. It was so annoying but more then that it hurt my feeling. I felt like the whole family thinks i am a ****. Other thing that happen are if he is like in the kitchen i can't go in there or my family makes a big deal or when i say i have to wash before i go over there they think i do it to impress him. The most irrataing is the kitchen thing though. Like once my aunt made burgers and everyone was in the kitchen including him but when i walked in there my aunt freaked out and started yelling at me about how i was supposed to wait and that they kitchen was small and wat not so i waited untill every one got out and then went in, he forgot to get a drink and he wentina and my aunt freaked out .

2006-11-10 16:38:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Adults inherit money from there spouses when they die, but where does that money come from?

2006-11-10 16:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 16:37:24 · 14 answers · asked by confused1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 16:36:31 · 5 answers · asked by Tareq 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a stay at home mom and often feel bored and lonely-any other stay at home moms feel this way and if so what do you do to have fun and make the day go by faster?

2006-11-10 16:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by mama of 2 3 in Family

2006-11-10 16:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by will d 1 in Singles & Dating

What was the dumbest argument you heard in person this week? (Internet chat doesn't count.)

2006-11-10 16:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Zelda Hunter 7 in Family

2006-11-10 16:32:00 · 5 answers · asked by bunny_rochelle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 16:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Some 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my so called girl friend gave my number to this guy i meet once at her place and he text me messages asking me for sex, and my boyfriend got it. He has always been on edge with this subject since his last girlfriend done it to him.No matter what i say or do he doesnt belive me. I even rang this guy up and asked him over in frount of my boyfriend, the guy never showed up. My boyfriend and i have 2 beutiful kids together and i have 4 from preivous relationship. Even when their dad rings or texts,my boyfriend asks if am going back to him. I have no family and olny one friend in my life, because he never trust them so i dont bother making any more. My boyfriend has moved out today because of the text. I have no one but him and i love him so so very much,am scared if i dont have him in my life my life is not worth living. iwill end up in a shell and keep myself there, i can feel it already and my kids need me. how can i prove myself.

2006-11-10 16:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by goolie06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 16:30:16 · 3 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

well i went out with this girl for a yr it was very serious. got her a promise ring we were about to move in together last sept. we were like best friends for 9 months before we went out. but when we started going out it became a long dist relationship. we went out in aug 05 and talked on the phone just about every night for hours. met up again in dec, march...had sex three times, may.. went to the beach etc, and june...beach etc. so end of july we start arguing and stuff and she says bc of that and her family life...her dad was cheating on her mom, he said he was gonna take off, she was about to get her own apt, she said she needed a break from us.
of course im devastated. and two days later she tells melast may/june she started having thoughts in her head like "omg im with the guy im gonna be with forever..this is it..and im about to move in with him...this is it...i wontever be single again" and she said shes really never been on her own, always from one relationship to another

2006-11-10 16:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to move on and save our marriage but I am angry and I find myself thinking about what he did constantly. How can I just move on?

2006-11-10 16:28:59 · 27 answers · asked by confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 16:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by sunshinebear 1 in Singles & Dating

I always mess myself up, because i sweet talk to men online, acually if i just want a normal friend , how can i express to them , then they will give up to meet me? help!!

2006-11-10 16:28:03 · 2 answers · asked by li y 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months earlier today due to trust issues and the fact that he's a little overprotective. But the thing is, I don't know how long I can last like this. Should I get back together with him, or should I just wait. Please, I need advice on this! Guys, you answer too. I want to hear this from your perspective.

2006-11-10 16:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by beautiful_dork12 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me, before it's too late...Thanx.

2006-11-10 16:26:25 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy who is very shy around most people, but never around me. He's nice, funny, and smart. I think he likes me too, because he was very comfortable with me from the beginning and flirts with me a lot. He hasn't ever had a girlfriend, just like I haven't had a boyfriend. We've talked and know eachother relativley well.. It's just, we both are inexpierienced and the path my friends took is definatley not the path for me. What should I do?

2006-11-10 16:24:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im me about it please

2006-11-10 16:24:24 · 11 answers · asked by - anti jonas - O_O 2 in Friends

Be very rational and realistic while answering...Think twice and write once.

2006-11-10 16:23:33 · 15 answers · asked by Sarab 1 in Other - Family & Relationships