I'm just plain. I've been told that sometimes people have to "take me in small doses." But I don't know why that is. I'm just the only single girl in my apartment with nothing really going for her. I just want to know if I should be doing something extra...or doing something different. I'm sort of hitting a brick wall. Help!
2006-11-10 16:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by Sleeping2Dream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be you. IF you try to always impress a guy you end up being someone that you are not. Even thought a man may say different a lasting relationship is built on trust and being who you really are. If you aren't yourself he will end up liking the person he thinks you are and not who you really are. I have been married to my soulmate for almost 4 years. I am on my second marriage. I didn't try to impress him by making him think that I was something I was not. A lasting relationship is built on the real and not the superficial. Home life is real. If he can't live with the real you it will not last because he is basing his feelings and love on what he thinks you are and not who you really are.
2006-11-10 16:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"take in small doses" usually refers to someone who has hyper energy, talks way too much and about nothing. Someone who can be negative and whine a lot about how much there life sucks. Someone who is needy. I suggest finding a hobby that doesn't involve anyone you know. Go out and meet new people. Dances lessons, karate, Brazilian dance fight...Make something happen in your life. Take charge and forget about everyone else and then suddenly people will want to be apart of your life. Go out and find a better job, take some sort of coarse, a second language or go back to school. Seek to be all you can...
2006-11-10 16:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by jjewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is the key , be more out going and kind .
Girls with self esteem always get the guys , learn to build yours .
Honey I'm 52 now and I have never been the most beautiful
woman in the room , but I have never been without a man beside me .
I take good care of myself and put my best foot forward and work
with my best features { which happen to be my legs } and always wear a smile . I am just me , and I love people and it shows and draws
others to me .
Hope this helps !
Go get um girl .
2006-11-10 16:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that one should see the inner side an not appearances, but mostly boys dont understand. just go through a makeover and be kool ,dont be a make up queen, relax ur self, and b nice even 2 ur enemies, if u r good in somethin so nourish it, (ex: if u r good in dance just show it babes). dont copy others try 2 talk 2 boys try 2 be urself with confidence and positiveness, and see a line of boys after u!!!!
2006-11-10 16:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by riya r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 12:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by sather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and involved. Talk to guys. show an interest. Us guys aren't blind. Maybe guys are looking wear your hair different change your make up. Little things catch a guys attention
2006-11-10 16:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tea-Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need self confidence and im not just talking about the crap self confidence that the world throws at you, ohhh you should feel better about your self, ohhh its not the out side that matters its the inside...BULL****!!! you get self confidence by doing stuff and achieve it, the more you do the more confidend you get! you shouldnt do extra things to change people's opinions about you but you should do some extra things that change YOU! now get out there and kick***! ohh its 10 pm...OK time for bed! start tomorrow...
2006-11-10 16:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself available. don't change who you are but go to places where a guy would be looking for a girl (like a club or bar) most men won't approach any women in ordinary places because of fear of rejection.
2006-11-10 16:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out more often. Try to meet new friends and eventually they will be present you to their friends and so on. Don't exactly tell the guy that you like him but let him know by your actions. Most importantly, BE YOURSELF.
2006-11-10 16:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by instaBaBy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take it so hard. We all have our rough patches darling. If you want someone to notice you dont get negative attention by being loud or trying too hard. Maybe do something different with your hair. (ex: if its wavy staighten it.) remember positive attention!!!
2006-11-10 16:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by coloradogirl21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋