I had recently posted a question about me liking my guyfriend. I wanted to know if should stay out of love life so I wouldn't mess it up. He just told me that he and his girlfriend broke up. I thought about our previous conversation when I told him that I like him as more than a friend. I said that I wanted him to leave her and he said if that's what I really wanted and it would make me happy then he would. I feel bad, but I doubt that it was because of me. He said he didn't want to talk anymore about it. My other friend said that it might be a chance that him and I make a connection on prom since he did ask me while he was with her. We had feelings for each other, but I guess friendship had its own rules. What should I do? Should I take advantage of this or leave to work out on its own?
2006-11-10 16:38:13 · 5 answers · asked by Ladybug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He hasn't spoken to me, but my other friend was around him when I IM'd her and she told him that I like him and he went on as if he didn't care. She said that maybe he thinks that she is playing. I hope that this doesn't ruin our friendship.
2006-11-10 17:03:18 · update #1
Stay out of it?? didn't you already tell him you liked him as MORE than just a friend...you already have him thinking relationship..and unless he is against it I would certainly give it a go...don't you think that maybe he feels the same way? most guys wouldn't break off with their girlfriend just because a female friend told them to...he likes you...go for it. (Tell him that now that he's available...you WILL go to prom with him)
2006-11-10 16:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the thing about men. You dont want to rush into a relationship with them after they break up with someone because 9 times out of 10 they will work it out. He knows how you feel. If and when hes intrested in you in that way hell let you know. He can still have feelings for you and see you more as a friend that is possible. My advice let it work out on its own.
2006-11-11 00:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say don't interfere with his love life. its selfish. if u care about him you wouldn't want to see him dump his GF to be with you. he might be happy with his GF and she might be good for him. its never a good idea for a friend who wants to be more then a friend to give dating advice to said person. your always gonna give biased advice and its selfish. i think you should find a guy of your own and if its meant to be it will work out eventually. i hope it helps and good luck
2006-11-11 00:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court; he is now single, you have made it clear to him how you feel. Maybe he just needs a little space . keep being yourself, and be patient,
2006-11-11 00:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh snap!
2006-11-11 00:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by ih8jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋