my so called girl friend gave my number to this guy i meet once at her place and he text me messages asking me for sex, and my boyfriend got it. He has always been on edge with this subject since his last girlfriend done it to him.No matter what i say or do he doesnt belive me. I even rang this guy up and asked him over in frount of my boyfriend, the guy never showed up. My boyfriend and i have 2 beutiful kids together and i have 4 from preivous relationship. Even when their dad rings or texts,my boyfriend asks if am going back to him. I have no family and olny one friend in my life, because he never trust them so i dont bother making any more. My boyfriend has moved out today because of the text. I have no one but him and i love him so so very much,am scared if i dont have him in my life my life is not worth living. iwill end up in a shell and keep myself there, i can feel it already and my kids need me. how can i prove myself.
2006-11-10 16:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by goolie06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you said it yourself your kids need you. Quit crying you have two kids together believe me you have the uperhand he will be back. I have found that when a man is always thinking you are cheating he is usually doing the cheating or he is wanting to.
dont act all needy the more he thinks you dont need him the more he will want you. Just focus on your kids! Men are like buses one comes around every 15 min. you get the choice of which bus to ride. The bus doesnt ride you!
2006-11-10 16:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think Your A Great Person So Who Needs Him! What You Told Us Is Very Touching So Tell Him That And Him Hes A Jerk About It Be Like Ok Well Good Bye And Thats It GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-11 00:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to prove yourself. He is controlling and possessive and you should leave him. He isn't worth it and you deserve better. Only you can be in charge of your own happiness; don't give him that power. There are other men out there who will be better for you and your kids.
2006-11-11 00:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by loammi8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boy friend is very insecure in this relationship, and he has an issue with trust, Tell him you are you and not his ex, and he really needs to learn to trust, even if it means counselling
2006-11-11 00:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about then...then go to the phone company and either change your number or block the other guys number to prove to your man how much he means to you.
2006-11-11 05:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by THE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should beg to him and b like if u reely luv me u should trust me or something, i reely hope u get him back.
2006-11-11 00:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by TaRaNjIT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you told us and how much he means to you and you would never do that.
2006-11-11 00:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by dan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋