it all started when we came back from a trip last summer. me, my cousin, her husband and her son went on a trip and when we came back my aunt started acting all wierd. Once when i wanted to ask him a questiuon a went near his dorr and asked him and my auint acted like i was going to rape him. It was so annoying but more then that it hurt my feeling. I felt like the whole family thinks i am a ****. Other thing that happen are if he is like in the kitchen i can't go in there or my family makes a big deal or when i say i have to wash before i go over there they think i do it to impress him. The most irrataing is the kitchen thing though. Like once my aunt made burgers and everyone was in the kitchen including him but when i walked in there my aunt freaked out and started yelling at me about how i was supposed to wait and that they kitchen was small and wat not so i waited untill every one got out and then went in, he forgot to get a drink and he wentina and my aunt freaked out .
2006-11-10 16:38:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way I don't love him
2006-11-10 16:39:17 · update #1
Now everytime i see him i try not to look at him and i feel all akward like they are judjing me even though i didn't do anything wrong
2006-11-10 16:52:32 · update #2
did i mention i was 15 and he is like 25
2006-11-10 16:55:31 · update #3
they say they're joking but they do it alot
2006-11-10 17:04:19 · update #4
my aunt makes more of a big deal then my cousin.she started this whole thing
2006-11-10 17:07:23 · update #5
DAMN who is she? The booty police?
TALK! Talk to your Aunt. Talk to your cousin - if it's not bothering HER it shouldn't be bothering her Mother. If you can't get through to your Aunt, then maybe she can.
Sounds like she (your Aunt) is VERY insecure. Was she cheated on? Was her daughter (your cousin) cheated on ? Has this man cheated before? Maybe he has and you don't know about it but your Aunt does.
Get a boyfriend and bring him around your Aunt's house so she will see you have "moved on" from her precious son-in-law.
2006-11-10 16:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, the fact that he is your cousins husband immediately makes him off limits, and second I dont know the back story, but your aunt needs to chill like a freezer because her over-reacting about you going into the same rooms as he does is just stupid. I mean unless she's afraid your going to uncover some sad hidden secret, you have nothing to worry about...my advice is this: talk to your aunt alone and find out what her problem is, and take it from there, I would also talk to your cousin and explain it to her also....theres no need for tension among family...I hope this helps.
2006-11-10 16:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by gremlin_98_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your cousins are the tease type. i would'nt care about the things that they do and that you can't do it. i wonder about those items they have, the wii and the xbox 360 and the clothes. did they buy them themselfs or was it given to them. they really should'nt act like that anyway. your a member of the same family, and they should love you for that. dont feel bad, tell them how you feel,and if it continues, i would just stay away from them. be with your own friends when there around. good luck.
2016-05-22 04:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stay away from him if it makes your cousin uncomfortable stay away from him.From U bringing it up it makes me believe you do have a minor crush on him.Bad News Messing with your cousin man is a NO NO.I believe there is two sides to every story and it is something you're not telling Us .Your whole family wouldnt be agianst you if it were not a lil truth to it.by the way Young girls tend to have crush on older men
2006-11-10 16:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by SARAH HILL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like a seal.
2006-11-10 16:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel Clark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if u aint having sex with him go ahead since u already are getting excused of it. what is the worst that could happen they are already mad atcha so screw him and get u good nut in the kitchen while eating burgers ur auntie cooked
2006-11-10 16:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
even if you embarass yourself by saying this atleast they will probably stop acting weird. Just say "i Dont love him okay and i dont like him either, so get it through your head that i dont have feeling 4 him.
2006-11-10 16:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ur fault ..I think your cousin noticed that her husband is interested in you or you are a type that sexually attract him ..so she told this to ur aunt and shes trying to not let him to be close to you as much as possible.women's jealousy..
2006-11-10 16:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sounds like she wants him and she has probably noticed him checking you out.. or maybe she knows something about him like he's a sex offender so maybe she worried about you ask directly if she thinks you want him or if she is trying to protect you ...
2006-11-10 16:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what to do, talk normal with him infront of all of them. don't act like you are hidding from him just so ur family will not talk. talk normal with everyone regardless what everyone think.
2006-11-10 16:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋