How do I tell a guy that I like him if im really shy around him? I need help. Every time I see him my heart sinks. The only problem is, is that I don't think he knows im a live. But he is so sweet and so cute. What should I do?
2006-11-10 16:44:49 · 15 answers · asked by jcpreston08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't have to tell him directly. just give him a few nudges here and there, a pinch here and a pinch there... drive it out of him. let him be the one to tell you he likes you, not the other way around. give him subtle hints... don't give yourself away too easily.
2006-11-10 16:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I have been in your place, except with a girl...it took me almost all 4 years of high school to tell this girl I liked from day one that I wanted to go out with her, I think its fear of rejection, I know for a fact that he knows you're there, and he probably thinks of you as just another person...just take a minute and then just tell him straight up:"Hey! I have something to tell you, I really like you and I would like to know if you feel the same way?" if that doesnt work, at least he knows now and you can then talk to him as you would your best friend.I know its hard to do, but if you take your time with it, you will get him, or at least have him as a close friend. Hope this helps.
2006-11-10 16:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by gremlin_98_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HONEY YOU NEED TO STOP BEING SO SHY AND JUST WRITE IF YOU CANT FACE HIM AND TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM THEN MY ADVICE IS WRITE HIM A NICE LITTLE NOTE AND GIVE IT TO HIM AND THEN GO FROM THERE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN IF YOU JUST TAKE THE FIRST STEP AND LETTIN HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BECAUSE IF YOU DONT THEN YOU MIGHT LOOSE HIM AND THEN YOU WOULD NOT HAVE KNOW IF HE LIKED YOU OR NOT SO GO FOR IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS GOOOOO FORRRRR ITTTT
2006-11-10 16:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by TX2STEPPER3602@YAHOO.COM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ist of all, start by saying hi in the halls. everyday, say alittle bit more and more, and you'll be friends. then, have a friend ask him if he likes u, and then have ur friend tell him how u feel. otherwise, u'll go on through life not nowing wht would have happened.
2006-11-10 16:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do friendship with that guy....
and get close and after that
open ur heart in front of him and let him see how much u love him.
if u are afraid of him do try eyes contact it really works sometime...
and express urself at the best way u can....
best of luck
2006-11-10 17:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a little not telling him that you like him . Or just bump into him and say HI to start a conversation
2006-11-10 16:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell one of your trusted friends to go up too this guy and tell him that she heard that you liked him. Works 4 me! :-)
2006-11-10 16:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i did was i got one of my friends who knew himm really well to tell him. and it worked out good because then he started to notice me and say hi and stuff, and then finally we started talking and everythingg. if youuu just tell himm anyway he'll npotice youu more and more and it brings better opportunities than not telling himm
2006-11-10 16:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by pinkgirl8o8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a secret admirer and send him secret notes if possible or letters and if you can afford it flowers or candy or what you would like done to you if someone had a secret crush on you
2006-11-10 16:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shake hands tightly and rub it nicely.
2006-11-10 16:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋