Ive dated someone for 2 yrs. Ive known him for about 10y rs..I cheated on him about 7 years ago, and I found out that he has cheated on me (lately). I have moved away to another state, and the person he cheated on me with, his best female friend, still lives near him. Before I found out he was cheating, I was suspicious because "all of a sudden" I couldn't reach him by phone for a month. We talked once or twice for about 5 minutes. The last time I talked to him, I told him that I knew he was cheating and he said he would call me back. He has been calling me, but I haven't picked up the phone. I just "see" him messing around with that girl whenever he's not with me. Which is all his free time because im not in the same state. We were supposed to get married, and left the state I was in to better myself, and prepare for our union.I need to know if I should talk to him and give him a chance to do right by me, or if I should just continue in my "moving on"...
2006-11-10 17:04:13 · 6 answers · asked by Tsmoove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just move on. You deserve so much better. I know its going to hurt and take time but at the end you'll have your pride and a new HOTT GUY sitting next to you lauging about this loser!!
2006-11-10 17:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize that most people are on their best behavior before they marry. If the best behavior either of you have is to cheat on the other, how will you be after the marriage?
Since you are in another state and he is behind with the person he cheated with, it is best for you to accept the loss of the love and find someone else. His cheating this far into the relationship shows that he is not going to wait for you.
2006-11-11 01:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there will never be trust between the two of you obviously as much as he tried to hide it he couldn't forgive you and most likely you'll never forgive him after this. Best thing to do is move on! Good luck!
2006-11-11 01:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life you don't need him! Trust me you will find the right man just give it time and you will see.
2006-11-11 01:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life coz that guy doesn't love you after all!Wake up girl!your wasting your time,emotions!Have you experience investing a business?That's what I've seen in you
2006-11-11 01:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Angelica A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so move on, once a cheater always one.
2006-11-11 01:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋