Doesn't it bother you when u get to chat with a younger (i mean much younger girl, min 5 yrs difference), and all she wants to talk is sex and she can actually talk without getting bored is that. And when you chat about other things that are more serious and more important she says "ah, your boring" and stuff like that, like it's our fault she knows nothing else to talk about. how can you get her aware of this fact, that the problem is actualy hers without geting her into a deeper stage of frustration?
2006-11-10 18:02:23 · 22 answers · asked by James Blond 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Younger people aren't as educated.
2006-11-10 18:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's much too young for you... is she even of legal age?? If the thought of intelligent conversation bores her... and you want a woman with some brains... I'd let her go... unless you are seeking a "trist"... she's not gonna do anything for you...
I agree with ya... I don't want a girl that has nothing else to talk about but sex... come on... in a world so full of things to talk about... you'd think she'd be wise on at least ONE more topic... LOL...
I'd just tell her that you don't think it's gonna work out between the two of you... and that maybe she needs to grow up a bit...
2006-11-10 18:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears like you're pushing him to assert something that he's not confident about yet. As a guy myself, there's no time reduce on falling in love with someone, and if a guy doesn't say it then a minimum of you recognize he's extra genuine than someone who says it to everybody. Plus all of us recognize that after we are saying those words the "comittment" aspect has to develop extra and which could be scary (extremely if that is a lengthy-distance courting, or he feels he has to renounce a huge area of himself to you). His previous adventure may mean that he's been damage formerly and petrified of putting forward it again. honestly, what does it count number if he says "i appreciate you" or not, perhaps he's exhibiting you presently in his personal way?? movements communicate louder than words.
2016-11-29 00:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Einstien, you're supposed to be the smart one here. You sound like you need some advice...she's probley tooo young and does'nt understand what you're talking about in the first place. Send her some literature to read on subjectas that you liike to talk about, and then ask her what she thinks abvout them. Bottom line is...find a common ground with the young lady, if you can't...MOVE ON!
2006-11-10 18:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by lempala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date someone more your own age. She hasn't experienced life like you have and has got a clue...She will however in 5 years. But where will you be...bored to death.
2006-11-10 18:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've found a woman five years younger than you who wants to talk about nothing but sex, and you're complaining! Most boys would be counting their blessings.
2006-11-10 18:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because some girls are just wanting to sound older and pretend for a while they are someone they really aren't. THey think that is what guys what to hear in some cases
2006-11-10 18:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by heartache 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, by writing this long question you should know full well that younger women (as well as men) are immature. Because they are immature then there is no way for them to see that they need to expand their intellect.
2006-11-10 18:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not just girls doing it. I usually start conversations out with people I don't know like, "If you're looking for pictures, cams, or sex, you're barking up the wrong tree." Then they say, "Ok, bye."
2006-11-10 18:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she says u r boring just tell her that when she has to work for her own survival she may not find those stuff boring anymore and walk away...
2006-11-10 18:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋