Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

We need to save as much as posible.
We found the most perfect place. They are willing to work with us, since are wedding is on a Friday and because the guest list is huge (you spend the same amout of money when you pay $20 a person and there is 300, as you would paying $60/person when there is 100).

I would like ideas that are:
Fun
Unique
Retalitivly Formal

and will cost at the most $30/person... (open bar required)

Are sites typical reception is $59/person
it has: 2 entrees, 3 sides, salad or soup, bread, and 3 hours open bar.

2006-11-09 11:23:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is it ok to like a guy about 3 yaers older than you or no cause i do

2006-11-09 11:23:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very insecure husband, of course I blame him for that, because he did cheat on me and now he thinks I'm going to go and do the same thing. I try to be so positive with him, I hug him, kiss him tell him how handsome he is, but no matter what I say or do he reacts with negative remarks. What else can I do to show him that I love him and only want to be with him. It has gotten to the point where I can't even go to the stores with my children, if he does not go I can't go. I don't want out on my marriage I want to work things out but I am really getting tired over these arguements which is on a daily basis... Help, any tips on how else to show him my love....... Especially any men out there....

2006-11-09 11:23:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anilop 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... this might get confusing... My bff since 4th grade, she made this new friend who is really popular. But the popular girl has favorites, and i m not in it. she only like blonds and i m not a blond. i no tht my bff should have freedom to be friends with everyone. Also i dun think my bff told this popular girl tht she is friends with me... what should i do??? also if you can can you help me out with this one???? there is this other popular girl who is bff with the one tht my bff is best friend with. but my bff thinks she is all tht. so i dunno wut to do... help???

2006-11-09 11:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by jz limmers ;] 1 in Friends

I love him but can't tell him. We ended it about two weeks ago (it was mutual) but honestly, I still love him. I can't tell him though because I'm afriad of us loosing what we have. I also can't tell him because I don't have enough confidence...
Please help:(
Sincerely,
lost and confused

2006-11-09 11:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by inlove? 1 in Singles & Dating

I really love my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years.

2006-11-09 11:21:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like him he likes me but how can i ask him out

2006-11-09 11:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Researchers have discovered that excessive masturbatiuon can cause dyslexia.
Hwoeerv, tihs is olny in etxreem caess of slef aubse.
Treu or Flase?

2006-11-09 11:21:32 · 17 answers · asked by mememe 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is one better than the other? What are the disadvantages?

2006-11-09 11:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Singles & Dating

He knows I like him.I know he likes me.We don't talk about our feelings,its just one of those things you know when it happens.(we have shared the most intimate moments,staring deeply into each other's eyes,talking while both being unable to control our huge smiles,holding each other close,even letting ourselves get carried away with the most intense kissing)We are both in relationships with someone else,so we know that we could never be 2gether.He keeps telling me that he can't do it anymore,but keeps going back on his word.Although he keeps telling me this,he is always the one to make the first move(saying "my feelings for you haven't changed."moving in for a hug, or just flat out kissing me)That's what happened the last time we saw each other, the emotion between us felt so strong&He said "I'll see you soon."!Now he's been avoiding me for the past week,Why? I can't get him out of my head.I am so hurt and I feel like this is all a game to him

2006-11-09 11:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going out tonight with a buddie of mine from work. He helps do club promotions and in his crew there a a LOT of fine girls. I have been having a "rocky" relationship with my GF (not really sure if we are together or not). He has told me that to get my mind off of that he will let his female friends know to try and cheer me up. With the confusion I have with my GF I should be looking forward to my night of Dirty Dancing with some s*l*u*t*y* girls, but I find myself having second thoughts about going. I know that I am not going to do anything that would constitute cheating.

Should I just go and have a good time?

If I go should I tell my GF about it?

2006-11-09 11:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 11:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And I'm not talking about financial, economical or social. I mean for the individuals. How is getting married better than being single, or even just maintaining a monogamous relationship?

2006-11-09 11:19:58 · 9 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend wants me to have FUN with him but i don't know what to do I am a virgin still HELP ME PLEZZ

2006-11-09 11:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by mommys_girl1234 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 11:19:42 · 23 answers · asked by sexyprep852 1 in Singles & Dating

And I don't mean when you see someone walking down the street and they look hot. I mean during foreplay and before sex. (like teasing and kisses on the neck)

2006-11-09 11:18:47 · 22 answers · asked by Amilucky0707 3 in Singles & Dating

We hav bn through so much 2gether & hav 2 wonderful kids & even though i lov him im not sure that im in lov with him. This past year has takn a toll on our relationship, we hav bn off and on & as a result we've drifted further apart. I feel as though I dont no him anymore. It's as though his not the same guy I fell in love with. The last time we got bk 2gether i found out he was staying at his friends x-gf house (his friend was also there when he first moved in but they broke up & his friend left for America) that did'nt go down well on me as i did'nt understand how another woman will let her x's friend crash at her place for as long as he wanted (3 months now) with no charge. Apart from that he would do things like say he was comming over and not turn up or even bother to phone thats when i realised this guy doesnt make me happy anymore, he does'nt even make me feel loved but what makes me doubt the decision ive made is that i love him - Shall i let him go for good or ask him bk?

2006-11-09 11:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by kel100 2 in Singles & Dating

For example, do you know anyone in an open relationship? Do you know any couples with huge age gaps? etc, etc.

2006-11-09 11:18:13 · 4 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to figure out what went wrong. I'm 21, sexy, in great shape (fitness freak), clean (I shave my pubes daily) and smart (3rd year undergrad). I was out with this girl and just about to loose my virginity when she got naked and even though she had a trim but large bush I didn't giggle but when I got naked she laughed and patted me o nthe head. A minute later she walked out still laughing after she took my hand and put my thumb in my mouth. She's said she was experienced and now I'm wondering what did I do wrong? My penis isn't small or anything its like 5 inches. Ladies I need an explanation it was my first time ever and I'm really confuzzed. I want to be believe I did something funny but by the way she walked out I'm starting to wonder. She's a really friendly person too, lent me her notes for class last night. I've tried asking her whats up but she always falls into laughter.. Please help (:(

2006-11-09 11:18:11 · 16 answers · asked by mikykinsABC 1 in Singles & Dating

do they think it is hot on blonde guys? i was thinking of growing a full beard, and i want to know if girls are atracted to them(but i keep getting violation notices from yahoo!)so...are girls atracted to guys with beards?

2006-11-09 11:18:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known my friend for more than a year now, and I know that he won't turn out to be a jerk or anything after I tell him but I'm really afraid that it will affect our friendship. I want to tell him but I don't really want to go out with him or anything just yet. I also think that it would feel weird when I see him again after I've told him. I also think that there's no point telling him because I probably won't have feelings for him later on. But now is now. I was even crazy enough to write a poem for him. Could he really be the one that I've been looking for? He has always been there for me, and he always made a bad situation good. I really like him at the moment but I don't know if I'll like him later on or if he likes me too. I'm really confused and I need answers. Please help me to know what to do. Should I just tell him now, or should I wait a while longer to tell him?

2006-11-09 11:17:11 · 12 answers · asked by azn_gurl 2 in Friends

For example, do you know any swingers? Do you know anyone polygamous? Etc, etc.

2006-11-09 11:16:06 · 12 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend needed $2000.00 bux for a down payment for a nice house he bought for my kids and i BUT he couldn't come up with the money so i used my clear van title and lost my van.
I have 3 children that need to get to school, doctor, dentest, and haul all their friends around in too.
which i can't do now. I do use my boyfriends car but he yells at me about the gas, dirty car, and how the kids eat in it. I say well if i had my van all would be well.
The real problem is:
my soon to be exhusband is willing to pick up our son and take him to school drop him back off at home no problems.
Boyfriend HATES this and thinks ex is only doing it to lust after me which i have been over ex for 5 yrs am NOT in love with him nor want him in any WAY!!!
BF says IF i let him drive the child then he can keep getting drunk and buying beer with money we don't have THAT COULD GO TO 2nd car!!!
but he keeps going on about,.. he'll keep the beer if i keep the exhusband around

What do ya'll thi

2006-11-09 11:15:44 · 14 answers · asked by rdjclark@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 11:15:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...NEVER FROM WORK EITHER... IT'S LIKE HE HAS A COUPLE OF TIME SLOTS A MONTH FOR ME AT NIGHT.

I M PRETTY SURE I'M NOT IMPORTANT IN HIS REAL LIFE, DO YOU AGREE?

2006-11-09 11:15:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've seen it with a lot of my friends. Ladies? Any insight here?

2006-11-09 11:15:06 · 32 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been going out for nine months, and he knows that all I read is romance books and I'm a helpless romantic. But he hasn't done anything romantic. I know I should just talk to him about it, but I'm too nervous. How can I make him more romantic?

2006-11-09 11:14:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes to shy to ask me stuff and i want us to be open with each other

2006-11-09 11:14:29 · 3 answers · asked by girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was extremely happy that my husband had a very distant relationship with his sister when we got married. She was (and still is) a control freak (just like her mother, my MIL). Now he's had some sort of epiphany and wants to include her and her abusive husband and two children (one of whom is like Damien from the Omen) for every family event. I feel like the victim of a bait and switch.

What would you do to maintain your sanity through these events?

2006-11-09 11:14:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Wht do you do if you tell a guy you like him and he doesn't feel the same way, yet he lectures you on how to be ok, and tries to treat me like he is a shrink. I want to just let it go and move on...

2006-11-09 11:14:05 · 17 answers · asked by tennis_lover06 1 in Singles & Dating