Ok... this might get confusing... My bff since 4th grade, she made this new friend who is really popular. But the popular girl has favorites, and i m not in it. she only like blonds and i m not a blond. i no tht my bff should have freedom to be friends with everyone. Also i dun think my bff told this popular girl tht she is friends with me... what should i do??? also if you can can you help me out with this one???? there is this other popular girl who is bff with the one tht my bff is best friend with. but my bff thinks she is all tht. so i dunno wut to do... help???
2006-11-09 11:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by jz limmers ;] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell your friend that you are don't like this girl. you shouldn't leave a friend because she made another friend. you could ask your BFF to a slumber party. Tell her you would like it to just the two of you and a couple of old friends. this popular girl who doesn't like you, you should confront her and tell her you will not be put down by a girls like her. the last thing you want to do (i mean never want to do) is dye your hair blond. you will be called a wan-be blond. i should know i tried it.
2006-11-09 11:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW-that is confusing. But I kinda got it. And I think...
you should tell your "bff" that she should tell the "popular" girl that she's friends with you, so she doesn't dislike you.
If that doesn't work-brush it off. People who only like blondes are really missing out on meeting cool people in their lives. This may sound corny-but w/e, it's true: Everybody (no matter what color your hair is) has something special to offer and if you hold discrimination then you'll never meet cool people and you'll never know what it's like to meet a person who is so different from you but is a good person and completely changes your life forever.
So what I'm saying is, "bffs" don't stay "bffs" forever-things happen. If your "bff" can meet other people-you can too. Meet people who don't hate on you b/c of your hair color.
2006-11-09 19:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life without looking at other people. Continue being friend with your friend even if she is friend of other people you hate. The best thing is focusing in own's life. I tell you this from experience: successful people are those who focus on themselves; they don't waste their energy worrying about others.
2006-11-09 19:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by cecilia d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be neutral the last thing you want is to have everyone hate you oh! one last thing do not put yourself in the middle of any big fights b/c believe me it will blow up in your face (talking from experience)
2006-11-09 19:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by ctrcs88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her when shes with the other girl if she treats u snobby talk to her about it if she dosent care maybe try making more friends its rough when ppl just want to be popular
2006-11-09 19:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice, your friend or your pride.
2006-11-09 19:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by FruitLoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋