Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

My boyfriend is cheating on me and the person he is cheating on me with is supposed to be his cousin. but i have seen text messages on his phone to her saying he loves her and she replies with the same. i never see them act sexual towards eachother but i know he is sleeping with her how do i confront him.

2006-11-09 10:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

liked someone and they asked u out and u said no for whatever reason and then in the end wanted to be with them more than ever and did ask them out or may be u changed ur mind or has the 1st answer always been final??

2006-11-09 10:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Singles & Dating

Would you tell your wife or girlfriend if you didn't like her hairstyle? Perfume? Clothes?

Why or why not?

2006-11-09 10:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well..i been hearing some things about this guy i like.....i heard that he likes me...but i dont know if its true...i have 1 class with him and he always smiles at me when he sees me...and talks 2 me alot..and he blows kisses 2 me in a joking way...hes so adorable! he told my friend that he likes me..but everytime i send one of my friends to go ask him if he likes me..he denies it! so how do i find out if he likes me..without him denying it??

2006-11-09 10:36:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so my LIVE IN boyfriend just called and said he sold his car and asked if he paid$250 of my car payment every month if i would let him use my car ?? he owns a business and does alot of driving? im thinking what about insurance now? and plus my car is a brand new 2006 scion XB that sits in the garage cuz i work out of my house, it only has 5,000 miles on it. Is this a smart desicion??

2006-11-09 10:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 10:36:18 · 9 answers · asked by girlangel929 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 10:35:56 · 31 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

hi i'm european living in the us.
i often play yahoo online games and meet a lot of guys from all over the world.
they always ask me my asl so i tell them i'm 23 f minnesota.
somehow they are always ages between 22-30
just perfect age for me and i thought it's kinda too good and strange.
so i pretended to be a 16 year old girl one day and somehow all the guys i met on that day were ages 16-19.
why do they lie? how old are they really?

also, i often meet guys who seem to be american on the net.
their id's include american guys names and their icon is a blond guy
they tell me they are american.
However as we talk, i find their english not so perfect.
and it turns out that they are actully guys from india or pakistan living in the us.

why do they pretend to be american?

2006-11-09 10:35:21 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

a friend,so after that we decided to be friends,but we still go out,i dont know if i can call that dating but we still do go out alone,& it seems i cant stop going out with him,am sure i dont like him,whats wrong with me then??

2006-11-09 10:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by 0% angel 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends friends wrote a note to me today saying that my gf is breakin up with me i wasnt supposed to no that but they told me. they are my friends but should i still be there friend?

2006-11-09 10:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kev B 1 in Friends

At school this girl that i think likes me is always telling me how cute i am and flirting with me, but I already have a girlfriend. i have told her this a million times and today she kisses me right in front of my girlfriend Why would she do that? My girlfriend is all pissed off at me now and we have been going out for 3 years. what should i tell both of them?

2006-11-09 10:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by jason c 4 in Singles & Dating

who in the hell likes matrosexual men? my missus is chewing my ear off about moisturisers and grooming products. she even wants me to get a manicure! why dont women these days like men like me, with stubble, rough hands, rugged looks, manly mans aftershaves, etc. why would anyone want to compete with a man that takes longer to get ready than their woman?

2006-11-09 10:33:45 · 19 answers · asked by big ric 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 10:33:15 · 9 answers · asked by brown eyes baby 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 10:32:48 · 2 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 10:32:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went with this one girl to homecoming and i was really nice and sweet to her. I didnt like her in the first place, buti asked her cuz her friends begged me to it. Still though i was super nice to her and sweet and now shes talking **** about me for no reason at all. Im really angry and will feel a lot better once i ***** her out. SHould i?

2006-11-09 10:32:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY BEST FRIEND USE TO GO WITH MY BOYFRIEND BUT I DIDN'Y KNOW MY BOYFRIEND TOLD ME,NOW SHES TELLING ALL OF HER FRIENDS THAT I GO WITH HIM AND SHE DID TO WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-11-09 10:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by sexyscorpio_04 1 in Friends

Let's just say that i've had my fair share of depression and i don't like it but recently i've had the worst feelings one could not imagine. I am not in danger that i am aware but i am in belief that i am worthless and people could care less and i have many ways of proving this i basicly hate my self and i can't think of how to change. I've tryed almost every thing and well nothing works and to make matters worse i have a logical side that is locked in a war that really has no end. I don't need mental help i don't need meds but i don't know what i do need because I have not the amount of people to help me in my fight with myself and my thought on giving up on all of it. Love does not exsist and niether does happyness with that all i have left is my past.. What do i do.

2006-11-09 10:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by darkangelquarantine7410 2 in Friends

He's home w/ our baby in the am, takes her to my aunt's ~12:30 & I usually pick her up ~5:00. By the time her gets home ~10:30 she's asleep so I spend more time with her than he does. I'm putting in extra time @ work so we can go on vacation in Dec. & I can get paid leave instead of taking leave with out pay (can't afford not being paid for a full week!) so I've been staying until 6 and getting her ~6:30 some days (not everyday).

He actually said to me that I could always be a better mother to our daughter if I'm with her more. I've told him that it's the QUALITY not the QUANTITY of our time together that really matters. He's basically saying if a person is a bad parent that by spending more time with their kids they'll majically become the best mommy/daddy.

I'm so pissed at him for saying this to me. All you working mom's out there know my guilt for not being with my baby all day everyday and the guilt when I miss work to care for my family. How can I make him understand me?

2006-11-09 10:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by smarty pants 3 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. i'm 13. he grew up in a small town and i was his first girlfriend. so i've taught him a lot. But, instead of telling me like hey u look good today, he tells his friends to tell me. and he never makes an effort to hang out. he never makes the first move. let's just say i dont want to be the "leader" in this relationship. i want to break up with him but i like him wayy to much and i'll probably cry for a week, since we were friends for a year before we started dating so theres a lot of memories. i've talked to him about it and he says ok im sorry i'll change. but he never does ...HELP!

p.s. if ur just going to say your 13 sweetie please dont answer because i know but i have feelings and emotions just like older people... i may not understand "love" but i didnt say i did.

2006-11-09 10:29:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 10:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been hanging out with him for a couple of months and have a great time, but he never wants to go out. Only wants to hang with friends and at home. Says he wants to be with me forever. What is this about? This is not developing into anything so I have started to date others. What do I do? I do love him. I think neither one of us want to take the leap.

2006-11-09 10:29:04 · 17 answers · asked by mcprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

why do some guys abuse their girlfriends, wifes, etc... but then once the girl leaves him he wants her back? whats up with that?

2006-11-09 10:28:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 19 years old and I have never had a girl friend.
I'm by no means a pig! I have a clean face, wash every day, basically keep myself in very good health. I have shortish hair, its the usuall messy yet styled look most guys have. I keep stubble.
I keep myself in very good condition by playing many sports, this keeps my body relatively toned, I have slight curves. I dress smartly, no trackies or hoodies. Its Jeans, shirts etc. I keep things colour co-ordinated. Aporaching girls, I'm confident in myself and can make/start conversations easily. I get looks from girls and I smile back, let girls through doord first etc. I also have many strong 'friend' relationships with girls but have yet to actually date one! Girls tend to be shy around me, which makes it worse for me as I also have my shy side. I've seen/talked with many girls in many places but I get rejected or 'just friend'. Have I just been unlucky? My height an issue? I'm 5ft 6. What do you girls think?

Thanks in advance.

2006-11-09 10:28:32 · 19 answers · asked by Your Friend 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 10:28:24 · 19 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 30 and I was stressed about that, well being a female n all. Two days later my brother killed him self. Is it okay to be angry? I just dont understand? I so lost.

2006-11-09 10:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by Letme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do u think if i talk to him. More he will think i am more attractive cuz i know he notices me. But we talk but we dont talk alot and i really like him. So should i just talk to him or just like Drop by him and say "Hey Whats up?" And crap like that?

2006-11-09 10:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with her because she wanted to party and do drugs and treated me like crap and I'm starting to like this girl at my school, but I'm worried about rushing it... or taking too long? Any advice on that?

2006-11-09 10:27:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For us men our sexual drive depends on when the last time we had sex. Like if it was hour ago then we don't like sex that much but if we hadn't had sex for one month then we love sex more than anything.

So for men it depends on the gap between sex

Is it the same for women? Is your sexual drive affected by when you last had sex and like if you haven't had for sometime does it mean your sexual desire is more. If not then what is it influenced by?

Please answer. I am too shy to ask women straight away.

2006-11-09 10:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

He wants to stop having thought like this but he cant. It makes him wanna kill himself what do I tell him? bc he wants help hw to stop having it go through his head 24/7

2006-11-09 10:26:08 · 2 answers · asked by Danielle S 1 in Singles & Dating