I broke up with her because she wanted to party and do drugs and treated me like crap and I'm starting to like this girl at my school, but I'm worried about rushing it... or taking too long? Any advice on that?
2006-11-09 10:27:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take your time. No sense in rushing if your not sure about a relationship.
2006-11-09 10:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rommie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex (who I dated for almost 6 months) just broke up with me a month ago, and he already has a new girlfriend, so clearly he's moved on, but I, on the other hand, am having the same problem. I sort of like someone in my math class, but I still have feelings for my ex too, so I'd advise you to not make any moves until you're ABSOLUTELY sure you're ready for another relationship. If you start anything up with this girl while you still have doubts about your last relationship, she could be totally crushed and then you'll end up with 2 broken hearts. So don't do anything you're not 100% sure about. When you feel like the time is right, then by all means go for it. Maybe spending some time with this other girl can help take your mind off your ex, start as friends, and when the time is right, you'll know. Good luck =)
2006-11-09 10:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by dramababii14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months really isn't that long, even though it may seem like longer. If she treated you bad and did things that you are against, than getting over her should be simple enough. Let time take its course. Getting into another relationship is all together another matter. Get to know this girl you are interested in. Take it slow, see what she thinks about moving from one relationship to another. Are you looking for a long lasting relationship, or just companionship? What are your expectations in the relationship?
2006-11-09 11:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by jonthebrute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long ago did you breakup? don't rush things with this girl but if you like her let your feelings do the work keep liking her and let yourself like her. sorry about the breakup try and see if this girl is someone who wouldn't treat you like crap and would respect you and love you because we all deserve that. but if your on the rebound just have fun dating and enjoying yourself and the right girl will come along.
2006-11-09 10:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by valley1800 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 mos is a long time, but at least it wasn't a couple years. Approach the new girl, talk to her, let her know you are just getting out of a relationship, are interested in her and want to take it slow.
2006-11-09 10:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, take your time and enjoy. People rush into relationships and end up not happy. So enjoy the romance and dating stage because life is short and make sure this is the one.
2006-11-09 10:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get into a relationship you need to evaluate yourself and make sure you have self-love. Self-love is appreciating yourself, knowing you're worth it, and feeling right inside that you're capable of moving on. If the broken heart feels as though it's been healed, then you are probably ready to move on. Take your chance.
2006-11-09 10:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you need to fully get over your ex girlfriend and it helps to think (or write down) all the things that are negative that came out of that old relationship.. then alongside that put a list of positives that will come out of moving on and meeting someone new. you'll soon see things in a different way then you'll be able to have controll over this new relationship that you want :) just try to focus on the positives
2006-11-09 10:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should take ur time and dont rush because you may get hurt a second time if u dont give ur self time to heal. just take things slow and get to know her before you jump right into the same problem.t rust me i have made the same mistake.
2006-11-09 10:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by sade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time and treat her like a lady always complimenting her and being her best friend but letting her know that you are very much interested in her but you want to take it slow and get to really know each other because taking the time to get to know someone first is bitter sweet in the end.
2006-11-09 10:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋