Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

This is kind of awkward to say...

Six years ago I was molested. I kept it to my self, and so did all the other girls (at least seven) I feel guilty and all the woulda-coulda-shoulda's are cathing up.

I told my parents last night and my best friends today. They said we could take this somewhere legally, but only with my permission. It's really complicated though. I love his family, but his wife and daughter would be split up. That might not be such a bad thing for her though, as their house is really a mess, their income isn't very good, but who am I to decide what is best for her?

What are my options? Are there any website with information you could give me?

2006-11-09 11:13:55 · 27 answers · asked by epitome of innocence 5 in Friends

What physical and emotional qualitites do you find most attractive in girls? Would you prefere naturally beautiful girls more than girls with make-up or vise versa? What essense in girls make you fall in love?


Just curious to know how guys think. Thanks for answering.

2006-11-09 11:13:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you handle a boyfriend that is totally overworked? he has to be there early and works pretty late at night. how do you handle fitting in time with him without taking away from his job?

2006-11-09 11:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 11:12:38 · 20 answers · asked by Bentele 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have known each other four 12 years. We have been a couple for 2 years. We were going to be married on June 4, 2005. But we never did it. We have a beautiful daughter together who is 9 months old. He says that I am his wife to everyone, and that we are soul mates and all. But why have we not gone to get the real title?? I think he is scared to make it offical. What do you think?

2006-11-09 11:11:56 · 26 answers · asked by Whisper J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WHAT DO I DO!!! my friend is crushing on my boy friend!!! and she e-mailed me asking me if she could date him!!! i said no but she said im asking him enyway what do i do!!!!!

2006-11-09 11:11:13 · 12 answers · asked by serena d 1 in Singles & Dating

He knows I like him.I know he likes me.We don't talk about our feelings,its just one of those things you know when it happens.(we have shared the most intimate moments,staring deeply into each other's eyes,talking while both being unable to control our huge smiles,holding each other close,even letting ourselves get carried away with the most intense kissing)We are both in relationships with someone else,so we know that we could never be 2gether.He keeps telling me that he can't do it anymore,but keeps going back on his word.Although he keeps telling me this,he is always the one to make the first move(saying "my feelings for you haven't changed."moving in for a hug, or just flat out kissing me)That's what happened the last time we saw each other, the emotion between us felt so strong&He said "I'll see you soon."!Now he's been avoiding me for the past week,Why? I can't get him out of my head.I am so hurt and I feel like this is all a game to him.I want to stop liking him!Can n-e-1 help

2006-11-09 11:11:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 11:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by sexyprep852 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with a married woman (I'm married too) who will be leaving the state in less than 2 months. Her husband is a bit controlling of her (monitors her phone, etc). She and I expressed our mutual attraction for each other at a work function a few ago. Since then, we've been out to lunch & last week she told me she'd like to go out for drinks after work this week after she returned to town from a trip with her husband. This week she basically told me that she enjoys my company too much to risk going out for drinks again. She & I both know this could turn sexual. The way I figure it, she'll be starting a whole new life in 2 months across the country. How can I convince her to live it up with me before she moves across country with her controlling husband? I Would appreciate responses from women who have walked this line. What would convince you? If she were just beautiful, this wouldn't be a problem, but I find her intelligent too & I can't resist that combo.

2006-11-09 11:09:45 · 22 answers · asked by DS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need names for me and my friends if you could just put it out there that would be reat thanx

2006-11-09 11:09:06 · 6 answers · asked by hayhay 2 in Friends

Here is more to think about: Lets say he has a good job, divorced, no kids, has a great personality, loves to laugh, is romantic, puts others first, has gone to college, and wants to start a family.

Down side: does not have a 6 pack stomach, has a receeding hair line, and wants to start a family sooner than later.

2006-11-09 11:08:31 · 25 answers · asked by droopydog88 3 in Singles & Dating

well I always do that Im 21 and virgin is it good to always do this

2006-11-09 11:07:58 · 4 answers · asked by rewrewr d 1 in Singles & Dating

Just that. I'm pretty sad. She had a baby, I love them both so much, more than you could love any 2 people on Earth. I am basically non existant to her now. I'm giving it time. She barely doesn't even want to speak to me. I didn't do anything wrong. ? I'm so sad over this. I call and she doesn't call me back, I email, nothing.
Thanks

2006-11-09 11:07:37 · 9 answers · asked by flaw 2 in Friends

to trust me and my crush going out! he's 16 and I'm 14(almost 15)..
she sais she trusts me but she knows how 16 y/o can be..

why is she like this?

2006-11-09 11:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Singles & Dating

Are any of you christian??????? if your not dont you know that Jesus love's you anuff 2 die on the cross 4 u!!!!!!! Jesus is the
easyest way out of this bad world.

2006-11-09 11:06:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I collect £2 coins. Yesterday, when I went to put some more coin into the jar they were all gone, about £200 pounds worth! I went down to the police station to see if they would take fingerprints if I paid for them but they said that they could only do it if I reported the crime. (It's not the first time money has gone missing and I need to know who is taking it!) I was advised to confront the kids which I have done but both deny taking the money. The boy is my partners' and the girl is mine and studying in order to be a barrister. Although my partner says he loves me, I don't believe I will have his full backing if I report the crime and it turns out to be his son. I am very strong willed and if it comes to it I will report it, come what may! At the moment, I feel like the bad guy instead of the victim of crime. Please help me!!!! I had a best friend that I used to talk to about difficult situations but he died in June and there is no one else that is impartial to talk to.

2006-11-09 11:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 11:05:49 · 8 answers · asked by blondiebella 3 in Singles & Dating

I thought this was supposed to be degrading to women, is it just the cash? It's ok if there's enough $$$?

2006-11-09 11:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by Icefire 1 in Singles & Dating

At school i have a friend that has a gf and he is flirting with me like all ways asking me to all ways sit by me and i just can't tell if he is flirting with me or is just my friend?

2006-11-09 11:04:42 · 7 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Friends

The wind woke me up five minutes ago. I asked my mom and dad what was happening, but they sent me back to bed. I don’t blame them, because it was the middle of the night. I’m 13 now, but I still feel as though they treat me like a child, We live in the lower part of the tree, so we don’t get as much sunlight as the leaves on the upper branches. My parents say it’s better to live here than on the upper part of the tree because we learn to take better care of ourselves, and become a better family. The leaves on the upper branches are spoiled and don’t want to have families. Right now, it’s the middle of Autumn, and it gets colder than usual. Much colder.
Right now, some leaves have already fallen, but a girl on another branch that I love hasn’t fallen yet. When my Grandma fell, I cried the entire night after, and cried harder when another leaf fell by my window. The next morning, I saw that the girl I loved had fallen, and that just made me cry more.

2006-11-09 11:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

On Christmas we will have been dating for 3 months...but we have dated many times before and we love each other very much but I have run out of ideas to get him for christmas.

2006-11-09 11:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Samantha.. 3 in Singles & Dating

she looks at me alot and showed me a picture of what she looks like in a bikini i also sit by her in class. should i ask her out and how can i do it in class

2006-11-09 11:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by skater232 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 11:03:54 · 16 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Singles & Dating

1.snowflakes

2.feathers

3.thunderstorm

4.horse

5.warrior


just a little curious about word/visual association ...can you tell me the first image that pops into your head when you read the word and what word you associate it with...thanks?...;0)

2006-11-09 11:03:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she doesn't like him
he likes her
his mom likes her

2006-11-09 11:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by D33_JIzZL3 2 in Singles & Dating

like having a baby or moving to get a new house...

2006-11-09 11:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by monkey 04 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my bf have been together for years (nearly 7) now and we have just brought a house together, we are planning on starting a family soon, (ttc now) and im having a lot of ppl say that its wrong and we should get married before we have children, but I know my bf is not the romantic type and I know he wont pop the question unless I ask but that’s not really romantic so, I was thinking is it bad luck or even just wrong for me to ask him?

I mean like I would make it a special occasion and not just ask him but I just want to know what some others think?

2006-11-09 11:02:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-09 11:01:45 · 14 answers · asked by ttt 1 in Friends

you know how they talk about love at first sight? do you think you could just see one person and become instant friends? like best friends at first sight.

2006-11-09 11:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in my early 40's, just divorced and am getting back in the dating scene.
I know I'm not young anymore, but I am not old either... Help Please!!!

2006-11-09 10:57:29 · 10 answers · asked by tammette39 3 in Singles & Dating