Just that. I'm pretty sad. She had a baby, I love them both so much, more than you could love any 2 people on Earth. I am basically non existant to her now. I'm giving it time. She barely doesn't even want to speak to me. I didn't do anything wrong. ? I'm so sad over this. I call and she doesn't call me back, I email, nothing.
Thanks
2006-11-09 11:07:37 · 9 answers · asked by flaw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If the baby is less than a year old, then your friend is going to be very preoccupied with the baby. I don't know if you have any children yourself, but a baby takes up a lot of your time and energy. I know that my wife scarely had time to take a bath, eat, or even go to the bathroom. On those rare ocassions when the baby is settled down and actually taking a nap by his or herself, the first thing a mother wants to do is rest, take a nap herself if she can even afford that luxury because a lot of times a mother will fall behind on house chores. Taking care of a baby is exhausting, and much worse if the baby does not sleep through the night. I know that my wife at times didn't even have energy to make a phone call, or even turn on the computer to answer emails.
Give your friend and the baby some space, and give it time. You could send her a note saying that you think about her a lot, and that you miss her. You could mention that you have some things for the baby that you want to drop off, and ask her to call you to let you know when a good time for that is.
Good luck. I am virtually certain that your friend is not intentionally ignoring you.
2006-11-09 11:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough. I still haven't gotten over mine and it's been 1 year, 8 months and I am now married. I even went to a counselor. Nothing really works...you just need to fill your life with distractions to the point that you don't think about it as often. But if you're like me (and if she was really your soulmate), it will always be there.
2006-11-09 11:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Emily D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to be alone. probably she have a problem that she cant tell. or maybe u was say something wrong to her and make her so sad until she dont wanna speak to u again. try to introspection ur self and maybe u can come and visit her at her house. if u really love her, u will not give up and sad like this. u must try hard to get her back. women hearts are weak, they anger will lost quickly if see someone try hard to have their heart back.
2006-11-09 11:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work at making yourself strong and happy. she may never be close to you again but you need to worry about your child now and do what is best for him.
If you sit around depressed all the time it will effect you kid and you don't want that
2006-11-09 11:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by keith s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just had a baby, babies do that to you, she just does not have the time anymore, visit her play with her baby share her joy, she may think you resent her baby.
2006-11-09 11:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to break the harsh news to your but perhaps she is not your soulmate.
I would move on with my life. I hope you can find a bvetter future for yourself.
2006-11-09 11:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your soul mate. She's telling you with her silence to leave her alone. I'm sorry.
2006-11-09 11:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals any heartbreak.
2006-11-09 11:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by salivate16 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is doing this then she isnt your soul mate!!!!
2006-11-09 11:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋