to trust me and my crush going out! he's 16 and I'm 14(almost 15)..
she sais she trusts me but she knows how 16 y/o can be..
why is she like this?
2006-11-09 11:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be my first date ever!!
2006-11-09 11:09:40 · update #1
What does she mean by "I know how 16 y/o boys can be..."?
2006-11-09 11:10:29 · update #2
Because your mom was a 14 almost 15 year old girl once, and she knows what the boys tried or did to her, thats why she is like this, she is only looking out for you, but I know you think you can handle your self, and you make good decisions, but it's hard being a parent, and you see your child doing the same dumb things you did, and not say anything, what you should do is sit your mom down, and have a good mother daughter talk, and ask her how her teen years were, and how the guys treated her. It will draw you closer together, and you might learn somethings that will help you in the long run.
God Bless
RS
2006-11-09 11:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is like this because she trusts you but really knows how 16 year old boys can be. She really does trust you she just doesn't trust boys with you. You are still young and she is trying to protect you. Have you tryed the group thing? Get a group of your friends together and plan a night out together. Maybe then your mom will let you go. Has your mom met your crush? That also helps sometimes. Have him come hang out at the house so she can get to know him better. Good Luck
2006-11-09 19:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother loves you!! Believe me, I know how 16 year olds are too..She is only looking out for your best interest. If she trusts you that is great, but she don't trust the other side, and I wouldn't either. Stay young and have fun, but always be careful! Invite him over for a movie or something, and then wait a while til your mom feels comfortable enough with him, and then ask her if you can go out with him ...just for dinner (to start out)..then when she can build the trust a little more...then she will be WILLING to give a little more...
Best of luck to you sweetie:)
2006-11-09 19:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the 16 year old guy your Mom doesn't trust, not you.
2006-11-09 19:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mailman Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes being protective like all mothers do...I hate it too. But thats what your mom has to do to keep you safe date the guy for awhile and show your mom that if you can trust then she should be able to also
2006-11-09 19:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question when you said "she knows how 16 y/o can be"
2006-11-09 19:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a 16 year old guy. and i know it completely depends on the kid, see if your mom will let him come over so she can meet him.
2006-11-09 20:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because shes ur mom and she doenst want u to get pregnant and end up working at macdonalds and giving up on ur college dream or w.e...
2006-11-09 19:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by ohhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom has been there and done that so she knows how they can be.
2006-11-09 19:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the mothering instinct. she does it because she cares about you and doesnt want to see you get hurt.
=]
2006-11-09 20:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by closetoptimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋