At school this girl that i think likes me is always telling me how cute i am and flirting with me, but I already have a girlfriend. i have told her this a million times and today she kisses me right in front of my girlfriend Why would she do that? My girlfriend is all pissed off at me now and we have been going out for 3 years. what should i tell both of them?
2006-11-09 10:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by jason c 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just tell your girlfriend that it wasnt you, tell her all about your problem and how it all went down, but as for the other girl,you should tell her that what she did was really shitty, and that she can never talk to you ever, ever again, make a huge scene of it- in front of your girlfriend... that should about do it, or it would for me
2006-11-09 10:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dani California 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 10 year old girl. I can relate how your girlfriend must feel. The guy i liked has a girlfriend already. Im fine with it, but some people arent.You should make them both meet with you together. Explain what happened with the girl that kissed you. Your girlfriend will probavly not believe you. Then you try and make the girl who kisssed you agree with the whole story.If she doesnt, say to your girlfriend that she kissed you. Hug and kiss your girlfriend. Make the other girl go away and talk thinngs out with your girlfriend. Now dont make the girl who kissed you come and your girlfriend leave. Youll girlfriend will thing you will kiss her again. that will really piss her off and might lead to a break up.Let them both stay and then tell the girl that kissed you know that you already have a girlfriend and love her very much. Tell her if she tries to flirt with you or kiss you again, youll sign a restraining order. Hopefully this will work. Make the girl who kissed you forget she ever liked you by making out with your girlfriend right in front of her. She will never flirt with you again.
2006-11-09 18:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nicola K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend, provided this is true, that you've always been true to her and that you've done nothing to encourage this girl. Tell the girl that kissed you that it's not acceptable, and if she truly respects you, she wouldn't resort to that kind of behavior and that it's very disrespectful to you and your girlfriend. You might also have to avoid putting yourself in a situation where this other girl would have an opportunity to pull a stunt like that.
You need to tell your girlfriend that you are true to her, and that you'll do whatever you can to avoid anything like that happening again. You understand how she feels, and if you were her you'd be upset too. However, this wasn't your fault, and with her help, you're going to make sure that this won't happen again.
2006-11-09 18:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by captainmcsorley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to piss your girlfriend off.. and it is working. The only thing you can do is to ask your girlfriend this question and ask for her help in solving it.
If you and your girlfriend unite to resolve this issue it will bring the two of you closer and will send a message to this other chick. The message being that you are unified with your girlfriend and that nothing she does can break you up.
Try checking out last seasons 'The OC' there were some episodes where Taylor tried to break up Cowen and the brown hair chick girl...
2006-11-09 18:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Trudy Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl obviously feels threatened by your girlfriend or probably jealous, by doing this she is trying to prove she's got one over your girlfriend, it's a way of saying 'see I can have your boyfriend if I want'. Don't give her the satisfaction girls like this need bringing down a peg or 2. Tell her that you like her but only as a friend because you love your girlfriend ( tell her how great she is that will really **** her off) and tell your girlfriend this girl is probably jealous of her and big her up make her feel special, that will give her a bit of confidence to deal with this slapper. Goodluck let me know what you think and how you get on x
2006-11-09 18:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u should just tell your girlfriend what happen, and tell the other girl that u love your girlfriend and u don't want to hurt her,and u 2 should just be friends
2006-11-09 18:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexyscorpio_04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl did that in the hopes that ur girlfriend would get maad, break upp with u and she would have u all to herself, explain to ur gf that the girl was mearly obsessed with u, tell the girl that u dont want any part of that and that u already have some one u love.
2006-11-09 18:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL if your gf and you have been going out for 3 years then she should understand if you talk to her.
And for the girl, i'd ignore her b/c if she went up and kissed you then she will end up being trouble for your relationship with the other girl.
2006-11-09 18:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by dreamscrushed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl that u don't like her and u have nothing to do with her. Tell her to stop interferring with ur life and just get lost. She probably wanted u and she wanted to make ur gf jealous so she kissed u. Tell ur gf that there is nothing going on between u 2 and explain it all to her. Tell her that u love her and u wud never do anything like that to her. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-09 18:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in this same situation. dont stress. tell your girlfriend that you love her and would never leave her for the other girl. you need to tell the other girl to back off and leave you alone. this worked for me and i hope it will work for you.
2006-11-09 18:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by alexv7942 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋