okay, so my LIVE IN boyfriend just called and said he sold his car and asked if he paid$250 of my car payment every month if i would let him use my car ?? he owns a business and does alot of driving? im thinking what about insurance now? and plus my car is a brand new 2006 scion XB that sits in the garage cuz i work out of my house, it only has 5,000 miles on it. Is this a smart desicion??
2006-11-09 10:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would he sell his car without having another lined up -- and before asking you to borrow yours? $250/month would get him a pretty decent car -- good enough to use for work. Actually he could probably get an XB for close to that. He will end up lowering the value of your car when he could have his own and pay the same amount. I think it's a bad idea.
2006-11-10 09:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by uke9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT...most insurance forbids using a personal vehicle for business purposes, and...if your boyfriend sold his car, when he knows that he needs one for work, that is his own stupidity. Keep the car, lose the boyfriend, he's only going to be taking advantage of you.
2006-11-09 10:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has insurance, and you're okay with all the extra miles on it.. then go for it.
If it was me though, I'd say for 250 bucks a month, he can get his own used car to tear up.
2006-11-09 10:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by bill m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has worry to financially help himself on the 2d, how does he anticipate to assist a toddler? Having a toddler just to coach off is particularly irresponsible. some factors to think of approximately: - it costs around $2 hundred,000 or greater to enhance a toddler to from delivery to 18 years of age; - there will be little or no time for yourselves as quickly as a toddler is in the image. Your existence will revolve around the toddler, not you or your relationship as an entire; - this is going to upload great rigidity emotionally and bodily If this situation has been ongoing for 4 years and he's fending off dialogue, that's a tremendously solid indication that it will not go away. If I have been you, i could have left your boyfriend 4 years in the past because of the fact verbal substitute, a keystone in any relationship, grew to become into for sure not getting by way of to him. Throwing around comments alongside with looking yet another much less-clever woman to get her pregnant exhibits that he would desire to care much less approximately what you think of and his emotional immaturity that may not worth to be a function-kind father. it does not be a bad concept to reassess your relationship in the present day. If he nonetheless possesses features which you get excitement from and can't stay with out, then you definately would desire to locate the thank you to get your message by way of at present day. Bringing a existence into the international is a extreme depend to not taken gently. For one, that's irreversible: a toddler won't be able to be back as quickly as born, and giving up a toddler for adoption because of the fact the mothers and dads won't be able to not grant help, provides undue rigidity to society and the toddler besides. ultimately, it is your existence and your relationship. I desire you're able to make the clever determination.
2016-10-21 13:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him driving your car everyday? What about milage, maintenance and insurance? What happens when your schedules conflict, does he get to use it because he pays? I think this arrangment might present problems later on. If he has $250 to pay each month, tell him to buy his own.
2006-11-09 10:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Debbi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
VERY BAD IDEA! Why can't he lease? Oh i know because it will cost him a fortune if he drives a lot! So why not find someone who will let him use new car for only $250/month. Hmmm who should he find? OH HE FOUND U!!! not worth it, your car will depreciate fast and extra insurance money... not worth it! remember he is not your husband!!!
2006-11-09 10:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop him now hunny hes using u and what a good deal hes getting its your car there costly and u work hard for it insurance company finds out that hes driving it when only one is on the policy uh oh and hes gonna add up Ur miles SO fast STOP WHILE UR AHEAD
2006-11-09 10:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay its not really a good idea. Even if he is your bf and all..Even if he is paying some..But what happens if he wrecks it or what happens if he uses you on blackmale over it..You are not married..So Can you really trust him ..Besides he should get his own car if he drives alot..
2006-11-09 10:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Letme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would share if he agreed to share the insurance, registration, gas, and the entire payment, or fahgetaboutit
2006-11-09 10:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Gur8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...do u trust him? why doesn't he get a used car? it would be fair if he's paying...but it all depends on how you feel. there is a chance he could crash your car...so it would be a good idea to add him onto your insurance.
2006-11-09 10:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋