Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

last night my girlfriend sent me the following txt
"I cant do this anymore to u I love you but dont want to worrie and hurt u anymore so im sorry but i'll be gone for a long time and dont wait as I dont know if I'll b back, So b happy and live life, I will send you the money for your car, I'll always love you in my heart but in dis world I cant hav love or b happy, I've been told this now I know this. I love you so much bye, live life b happy and find love ok, dont wait for me xxx Laura xxx, forget me ok, forget me"

I feel like this was a suicide note so I called the police who went to her house and seen her mum, she said that she's just a real drama queen sometimes but I think that with all the stress she has at the moment that she may've done self harm...

anyway what should I be thinking, I'm going to email and ring her later on too see what her story is, I cried when I read this message at 4am today and just hope that she aint done anything cause I'd be upset if she has.

Mitch

2006-11-09 09:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I usually don't like doing what other guys and gals do on this site but I have no other choice. I have a friend who is driving me crazy!!! She has a friend that she loves, but before him she knew a guy in the Army and they chatted online for a few months. The other day she told this other guy friend that she was having an internet relationship with the Army guy. He blew up and told her to f--k off! (I KNOW MR. THE MAN...I SAID F--K OFF!) Any way, she messages me and tells me that she doesn't know what to do. I told her that I can't tell her what to do but only to suggest what to do. She is 27 and blonde. Nice figure too. But that's beside the point. I said that you must first figure out what you want out of your life. When I question the ladies I always ask them of their goals in life. And I match them up with mine and if they come close you have a match. I have said more to her than what I can type here, but is it me or does she love both men and don't want to part with either one?

2006-11-09 09:52:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even though you don't get along with some?

2006-11-09 09:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, ive started to nocice im losing friends and its getting harder for me to make new ones!! Around my friends im crazy & funny and really nice to talk to but then around other people, I DONT TALK!! i try to talk, I WANT TO TALK!, BUT I DONT!! people are starting to think im mute!!! loo thats not good!! and my mom is considering professional help but i dont want that! (yet!) anyways, too sum it all up, does anyone have any advice?? ive tried just letting it all go and just be more outgoing!! but you have to know, its easier to say than to do!!!

2006-11-09 09:51:57 · 13 answers · asked by Answerer 4 in Friends

I love children, I just dont see myself as a guy that could raise some other man's children. I like having the freedom clearly, and quite frankly dealing with a lover's exes, which would be necessary here, is not somethat that would work out very well for me at all...so am I just a jerk, and how would this be percieved?

2006-11-09 09:51:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We ask her to hang out and she just sits in the car and doesnt say one word the entire time. Then she geets mad that i dont call her. Im not goin to call her if shes not goin to talk. Am i right?

2006-11-09 09:51:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-09 09:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by sherry s 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you tend to automatically take the side of your own child? Or in fighting the urge to do so, do you find yourself taking the side of your stepchild?

(Both children are five years old.)

2006-11-09 09:50:27 · 5 answers · asked by Namtrac 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Met boy in middle school. Flirted into high school....Always crushed on eachother. Kinda sorta dated.
He went bye bye into the milatary, but kept contact.
Came back and contacted me, we hang out, flirting....
had one hot night, he never called....so I didn't call.
didn't speak for a year, but spoke to him when a mutual friend passed away.
now suddenly is coming to my performance tomorrow, with his new gf.
I'm jealous. because we've talked this week and he flirts still.
I think he and I are soul mates with our history (obviously cant put all occurances in this question). what should i do?

2006-11-09 09:49:55 · 6 answers · asked by Marisa M 1 in Singles & Dating

he all ready has a new grifriend and we only went out for 4 days

2006-11-09 09:49:11 · 1 answers · asked by hay but b 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for about 1 year now. We have a lot of problems and I dont really adapt to the person she wants me to be. I am American and she is Italian, there is a small barrier. I love her so much, but we just cant seem to stop arguing. I am against going to a marriage shrink because I simply dont have the money to spend on that.

One side I feel that if I leave her I will regret it, but on the otherside I feel that I am losing my sanity. I love this woman, but I cant do it anymore. I need to be healthy in my own right, and we both need to be able to think on our own.

When does a person actually know its time to call it quits?

2006-11-09 09:48:52 · 18 answers · asked by Joe Bob Charlie, Joe Bob Chopper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

two daughters...four years apart...sibling rivalry has not lessend with the years....will it ever?

2006-11-09 09:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by karen h 3 in Family

Last year i started to like a girl I met.
This year she started to say hi to me and I said hi back but know when I say hi to her she acts like she doesnt know me.

What should I do?

2006-11-09 09:48:46 · 6 answers · asked by Octavio 1 in Singles & Dating

I am at my girlfriends house with 3 other girls and we were playing cards we said loser had to do what the winners said well I lost and the girls talked and than said I had to dress like a french maid with corset,panties,garter belt,stockings,petty coat,heels,hat,makeup paint all my nails and than clean the house while dressed up
I think it's unfair I should have to wear all of that and clean her house

So the girls said we could ask it on here and I know there are alot of people on yahoo so I agreed

Should I have to do all that they are saying

2006-11-09 09:48:16 · 9 answers · asked by Your Mom Loves Me 2 in Singles & Dating

What language does Brazilian people speak? Whats the name of the language??


Its not fair that they have Spain, Mexico, and Brazilian Yahoo

2006-11-09 09:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

First off, I just wanna remind you guys to be a little more open-minded. This guy I know is 35 years old and lives with his brother. Four years ago, his brother gave him a truck, which he drove without an insurance. One day he wrecked the truck (also DUI) and got his license taken away. He is required to pay $4500 (for demage) before his license will be returned to him. His brother (who owns a restaurant) then offered him a job at his place, hoping for him to save up and pay $4500 back in order to get his driver license back. It's been four years now. The guy still works in a restaurant, live with his brother, but unable to save any money at all. Now he complains to me that he hates working in the restaurant and that he doesn't have any money. I've tried to motivate him and all, but he always seems depressed and not so motivated. His brother seems struggle to help boosting his ambition also. I believe in a second chance, but anyway, what do you guys think? Is he just a pure loser?

2006-11-09 09:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 09:47:15 · 7 answers · asked by nihilist 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See I like this guy but he did not tell me if he liked me and then suddenly the next day he is with another girl.

2006-11-09 09:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by J.J 2 in Friends

He's a year older than me and my mom says that I can't date yet because I'm only in 7th grade. Last time I snuck behind her back I got caught.What do I do?

2006-11-09 09:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by K. L. 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...i met this guy named noah my eighth grade year i have been talking to him since....and we are on and off all the time..and he claims he loves me and wants to be with me but like when we do decide to hook up or whatever he never calls me because its his senior year and he has a job..i mean it doesnt take two min. to pick up the phone to say "hey babe cant talk right now but i will call u later" am i right or am i being selfish...?

2006-11-09 09:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

answered my last question or anyone else. Would it be really like wierd and stalker like if I talked to him or at least said hi to him everytime I saw him in the hallway inbeetween classes???

2006-11-09 09:45:42 · 8 answers · asked by iluvhandsom. 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay guys, when it comes to sex & making out - which one is more effective to turn you on? Moaning phrases like 'I like that' or your name; or moaning dirty phrases like 'f*ck me harder'?

Or is it both?

2006-11-09 09:44:44 · 30 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

♥ he is an awsome boyfriend and i luv him sooooo much

2006-11-09 09:44:24 · 2 answers · asked by frisky and cute 1 in Singles & Dating

so, theres this new kid at school, and he asked me out, i said no and hten he asked me out again. i said no again. then i found out that he asked out all of my other friends. he is a wanna be "playa" but all of my friends said no. so hes not really a playa. but anyways. hes always making rude comments to me and i told him that i didnt want him to talk to me but he keeps doing it. he says my name and when i look hes whispering in someones ear [i know, childish] but i dont know how to get him to stay away from me. and my friends all hate him too but he doesnt believe me. i just want him to go away! what sould i do??

2006-11-09 09:44:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live in australia but hope to find just 1 lady overseas to keep in touch with. i am married and have 4 teenage children. i enjoy socializing travel. i live in an isolated aera and lead a fairly busy life on a farm. i love animals all sorts of people and keeping in touch with what's going on in the world

2006-11-09 09:43:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if u got somethin bad to say...do me a favor........ dont bother writin k....k
Now i know your moving away im thinkin how im going to pursuade u to stay we were buddies in 4 and 5 grade im lost what am i goin to do i need to make it up to u who goin to be there when im feelin blue you were the one who helped me through when i found out we might be cousins i was so happy but if we dont ever see each other again i know i might sound a little gay but i might as well say i will still love you anyway i want to say goodbye instead i'll say see you intil NEXT TIME

2006-11-09 09:43:02 · 3 answers · asked by ~!~Dat Gurl Kelz~!~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's nearly Christmas...
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year, but have known each other since we were kids.
He has a great job, and has pretty much everything he wants and needs. If there is something he doesn't have he can afford to go out and get it, and he usually does.
What do I get the guy who has everything? He's not very romantic, but I'd like to do something really sweet for him without being soppy.

2006-11-09 09:42:35 · 16 answers · asked by Amy D 2 in Singles & Dating

How has your taste in men changed from when you were a teenager to now (please state your rough age!). Has what you found appealing drastically changed or do you pretty much like the same things in men you did when you were younger? I am curious to see what you say because at age 29, I still seek the same qualities in women (or I should say they still appeal to me) as I did when I was 18.

2006-11-09 09:42:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy in my class and i don't know if he likes me. How can I tell?

2006-11-09 09:42:27 · 9 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

If a married man kisses another married woman and they make out that is cheating. So now would this woman be more important or meaningful to the married man, would he think about her more than he did with his past girlfriends or flirts? Or are all the girls in a man's love life just as important to him? I am asking if the married man were to think or miss another woman would it be his affair woman, or the ladies before marriage? What is it for the man?

2006-11-09 09:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by richards_tr 1 in Marriage & Divorce