Ok, ive started to nocice im losing friends and its getting harder for me to make new ones!! Around my friends im crazy & funny and really nice to talk to but then around other people, I DONT TALK!! i try to talk, I WANT TO TALK!, BUT I DONT!! people are starting to think im mute!!! loo thats not good!! and my mom is considering professional help but i dont want that! (yet!) anyways, too sum it all up, does anyone have any advice?? ive tried just letting it all go and just be more outgoing!! but you have to know, its easier to say than to do!!!
2006-11-09 09:51:57 · 13 answers · asked by Answerer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just speak up. Speak for yourself, noone ever died speaking. Wait, thats prolly not true. lol. But id say maybe join a group or sport. And also volunteer in your community will help others be able to recognize you and approach you.
2006-11-09 09:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't talk much when i'm in an environment where i don't know anyone. n i have friends telling me that they thought i had an attitude problem when they first saw me. (hahahz) i know its hard to open up all the way initially. but u can start by showing your friendliness with a smile or some kind gestures. (believe me, sincerity goes a long way.) join some activity group and find the chance to connect with like-minded people. trust yourself n be confident. you will do fine. =)
2006-11-10 20:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by darndevilish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in your shoes. I talk around people that I feel comfortable with. The only thing I can say is try, try, try. Why don't you want to talk? What I did is said an affirmation 3 times a day for 23 days. It really helped me. The one I said was I have no fear in me. Prosperity is mine. God provides infinetly to me and all humanity.
2006-11-09 09:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by freeme529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well trust me i know how that is but i was raised with a good heart so a lot of the time i push people away when i don't want to. If you don't want to lose friends then the best thing to is to stop trying to keep them. Keep them close to you but not too close. Don't ask the impossible of your friends.
2006-11-09 10:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by darkangelquarantine7410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to not really talk alot either.(now you can't get me to shut up!) Maybe you just have nothing to talk about with those people. There is one girl who doesn't talk alot in my school, but I know her, and she's an awsome person. Just find people that you can talk too. Don't worry, you will find them!
2006-11-09 09:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by spacecase19902000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly most people arent worth talking too, chose your friends wisely good friends dont come along every day and as you get older it will be tougher to meet folks you can really trust
2006-11-09 10:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just like you, I seldom talk to people I don't know. But I still have many friends. Just be yourself, friends will come naturally.
2006-11-09 13:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya just go up to some one you no that you are better than and talk 2 them and then just move it on up the social latter until you can be talking to people like me (popular) no problem!
2006-11-09 09:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show gd body language talk more wit boys sing step by step u wont b a bit shy!!ehows a gd site to luk up things ur not sure gd luk
2006-11-09 10:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by sexy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Social Reprogramming Method : http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?qBoq
2016-06-22 02:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Vonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋