last night my girlfriend sent me the following txt
"I cant do this anymore to u I love you but dont want to worrie and hurt u anymore so im sorry but i'll be gone for a long time and dont wait as I dont know if I'll b back, So b happy and live life, I will send you the money for your car, I'll always love you in my heart but in dis world I cant hav love or b happy, I've been told this now I know this. I love you so much bye, live life b happy and find love ok, dont wait for me xxx Laura xxx, forget me ok, forget me"
I feel like this was a suicide note so I called the police who went to her house and seen her mum, she said that she's just a real drama queen sometimes but I think that with all the stress she has at the moment that she may've done self harm...
anyway what should I be thinking, I'm going to email and ring her later on too see what her story is, I cried when I read this message at 4am today and just hope that she aint done anything cause I'd be upset if she has.
Mitch
2006-11-09 09:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think she feels that she cant have love or be happy because of a previous violent relationship and family stresses and just bad things happening in her life
2006-11-09 10:27:46 · update #1
aww that's really sad.... make sure u are there for her, even tho she needs time on her own right now. u did the right thing by letting her parents and the police know that she is having trouble right now. if it's possible, try to work w/ her mom and friends to get some ways to help her.. perhaps a counselor or therapist.. don't give up on her, but at the same time make sure this does not consume you. she is pushing u away..and if u keep trying she may get upset.. or she may accept ur help.... but u have to be strong enough to take either reaction from her. just continue to talk to her mother or her friends, maybe email or text her once in awhile and just say "hi" to let her know u are thinking of her.
also, tell her that even if you are not "together", she can still count on you as a Friend, because u care and love her as a person. that way, she hopefully won't feel "stress" thinking she has to be ur Happy Girlfriend u know?
tell her u will always be there if she needs to talk.... btw, who told her she "can't have love or be happy"?? why does she think this? something is going on w/ her....
take care, good luck~
2006-11-09 10:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ring her now.... try and find her now.... if its early in the morning where you are who cares get out there and make sure shes OK. as soon as you see her give her a massive hug and don't let go. let her no you love her. comfort her, shes upset. if someone is saying something like that she is reaching out... how rude of her mum to turn around and say she's a drama queen. stick by her side, what ever ups and downs she going tho go thru, go thru them with her, be supportive. she really needs you if thats the way her mum is responding. let her no how much she means to you.
2006-11-09 18:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Brookeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sad.but i think you have done all you can for now & it was good you rang the police!!
like someone said email her or ring but don't make a pest of your self just let her know you are there for her if she wants you.
2006-11-09 18:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋