liked someone and they asked u out and u said no for whatever reason and then in the end wanted to be with them more than ever and did ask them out or may be u changed ur mind or has the 1st answer always been final??
2006-11-09 10:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
point is do u ever change ur mind when it comes to being with someone?
2006-11-09 10:41:53 · update #1
What????? Talk about a run-on sentence, geez!
Now your speaking my language..... Anyways, yes. It is normal for you to change your mind about wanting to be with someone. It's especially normal if you find out things you didn't already know initially about this person. Ever heard, "The grass is always greener on the other side." ? Of course you have, it's a popular saying. My point is that sometimes you are attracted to someone when they no longer want you. The reason for that is probably because the ball is no longer in your court. In other words, you like the feeling of being in a position to turn someone down, or accept them. Once they no longer care about you, YOU in-turn actually get a feeling of rejection! Aren't humans strange????? P.S. Why did you feel it was necessary to give me a "thumbs-down" just because I pointed out the fact that your question was a run-on sentence? I wasn't trying to be rude, sorry....
2006-11-09 10:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Smirx 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes.
Sometimes the guy wants to be the one to do the asking so he will reject the girl's proposal then turn around and ask her out.
Kind of a wierd psycological dominance issue (not me, though).
Other times, feelings do change or develop more.
And, yes, there are decisions that are final where one is not interested or just wants to remain friends.
It depends!
2006-11-09 18:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have had remorse towards turning someone down. Sometimes we haven't recognized or seen the qualities that later attract us, or maybe our eyes were drawn towards another. It's life, but we live and learn, and appreciate the qualities that we find to be attractive and healthy in our significant others.
2006-11-09 18:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by captainmcsorley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we have this question in English now - or at least in a sentence that I makes grammatical sense if no other ?
2006-11-09 18:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.im a girl....and my crush is going 2 ask me out this week.....so i was thinkin of sayin no...but then i might change my mind! so if u said no...but then u change your mind....i would go and talk 2 them!
2006-11-09 18:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i really liked this guy but i had a bf so i said no...but then i couldnt stand not being around him so i broke up wit my bf and went out with him
2006-11-09 18:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by juicy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, maybe change your way you approach him, talk about guy things, but also keep it normal. He might change, and he might not. Give it time
2006-11-09 18:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what girl is like mentally and physically
2006-11-09 18:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by cwb63ss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first answer final
2006-11-09 18:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for what you want
2006-11-09 18:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by cmclvsgtk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋