i've seen it with a lot of my friends. Ladies? Any insight here?
2006-11-09 11:15:06 · 32 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's important to pay close attention to your mate while you're dating and that's why it's essential to pay attention to move in together before marriage or at least spend nights with your mate before marriage. When you do, you might notice things you like and dislike but here's your chance to make things right; ask questions and work on this person.
2006-11-09 11:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dimples 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change in what way? Perhaps its the guys who think they can continue living their lives like they are single and the woman has to ask "will you take out the trash?" instead of the guy knowing that this is a household chore.
Some women might change. Because they are not carefree anymore? There's probably a lot of pressure on them now. Everyone changes...
2006-11-09 11:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Angelstar_BC 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple.
It's all fake on both sides and the stink on the doo doo starts to smell for both sides and then each side goes to their confident collection of assholes who hate the opposite party and get reassurance that it's not them and it's all the other person.
Then comes the countless wars of emotion trama and verbal lashings causing the defensive partner to believe his or her delusional beliefs further.
Then the lawyers arrive on the scene and there is a splendid little war
Or your married to closeted ***** who trapped you to begin with and is now ducking the life force out of you while she complains she does everything and no one pays attention to her and the kids she wanted turn out to be little bastards because she wanted to be super mom and spoil them but just can't figure out why they are so evil.
Then comes your ***. Your a dick because she bitches and complains at every move you make...when clearly all you want is some respect and a few minutes of alone.
2015-12-09 12:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guys change the way they treat them- so the women change in conjunction to the lack of affection?
Maybe they have children and have to nurture and love them some - so the hubby needs to get a little less of the attention snd they see it differently?
Maybe they were so desperate for a man that they changed themselves to get one- then once they had him they got to go back to who they really were.
Maybe they grow up and the guy doesn't- so they appear different.
Maybe the guy grows up and the girl doesn't - si they appear to be different.
Dang- I could go on all night- but I think you see - it could be alot of things. With out observing the realtionship and hearing more specific details- the "general statement" is nearly impossible to answer.
2006-11-09 11:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they're stuck with one man for the rest of their life. Humans as animals are not monogomous. When forced into such an environment of monogomism, they become hostile and mean. I don't know what this is like because I am quite honestly happy with it, but I'm a rare breed. Women and men are not naturally monogomous. Men leave the house and women rant. That's their ways of coping.
2006-11-09 11:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wetawd!!NRR! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're right we change, I have changed since I've been married, my reason is simple COMFORT I admit I am so comfortable with my husband that I no longer feel the need to go that extra mile like when we first met. However, my husband has admitted the same, and we work at it everyday, one of the things I do is tell him to tell me what he misses, and believe me I deliver!! So if you do get married and your wife loves you, she will do the same!!!
2006-11-09 11:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason why men change after marriage. Because that's the way there were to begin with. It is during the courtship phase when they are on best behavior, after that they go back to the same old way they always were.
2006-11-09 11:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Marti M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do men changed once their married?
women change because they react to the way they're being treated in the marriage, seems like once you get us then everything stops
hope that answers your question
2006-11-09 11:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by msalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are so very innocent !
Who dares to say we change after we are married ?
What about you guys ??
Come on Ladies , we have to defend ourselfs here !!!
2006-11-09 11:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋