I love him but can't tell him. We ended it about two weeks ago (it was mutual) but honestly, I still love him. I can't tell him though because I'm afriad of us loosing what we have. I also can't tell him because I don't have enough confidence...
Please help:(
Sincerely,
lost and confused
2006-11-09 11:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by inlove? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just went through the same thing and the way my ex-boyfriend/now back to being my boyfriend did it was just to say it. It doesn't hurt to just say the words I still love you. And, of course you still love him, it's only been two weeks. You haven't even given yourself time and space to get over him and let your feelings, head, and heart move on. Moreover, he's your best friend and you're never going to stop loving him just for that purpose. Maybe you still love him, but you two just can't be bfriend/grlfriend and that's okay--loving someone you are no longer with isn't a crime. Your lack of confidence comes from the fear of being rejected again. But, that fear cannot define how you act. If you let fear control your every action, you would never get anything accomplished in life. Besides, it isn't about confidence, it's about being ready. You could be the most confident person in the world and still not be ready to let that other person know how you feel. I say wait, anyway. If after another month or so, you still love him, then tell him. If you tell him now it will only seem like you are desperate to get him back when after you two have already decided to call it quits.
2006-11-09 11:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by lawyergurrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/AHfQR
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-25 21:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actual did not some ingredient incorrect. Your ex died and it ridiculous for him to get mad at you for being there for his kinfolk individuals. Your boyfriend could not be jealous that you care about people whos relative died. Thats loopy and likewise you've been impressive to do what you likely did.
2016-11-28 23:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened with me
I told him I still loved him and that I missed him and that I was going try to get him back
Im still trying and he calls now
so just let him know maybe he still loves you too.
2006-11-09 11:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hint it to him that u still like him
maybe he still likes you but u never know until u try
also u could write him a note or just call him and tell him i mean u dont have to do it in person if thats what ur afraid of.
2006-11-09 11:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you still love him but you glad that ya'll decided to just be friends then you will get your point across without pushing him out of your life completely.
2006-11-09 11:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just hint at him by flirting and maybe buy him something Let him know you are putting forth effort to see him and just see how he reacts.
2006-11-09 11:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by geoffzaz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the thing about your ex-boyfriend is you have to remember that he is your EX-boyfriend as in no more, it is over, move on.
2006-11-09 11:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it before its too late.
2006-11-09 11:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋