We hav bn through so much 2gether & hav 2 wonderful kids & even though i lov him im not sure that im in lov with him. This past year has takn a toll on our relationship, we hav bn off and on & as a result we've drifted further apart. I feel as though I dont no him anymore. It's as though his not the same guy I fell in love with. The last time we got bk 2gether i found out he was staying at his friends x-gf house (his friend was also there when he first moved in but they broke up & his friend left for America) that did'nt go down well on me as i did'nt understand how another woman will let her x's friend crash at her place for as long as he wanted (3 months now) with no charge. Apart from that he would do things like say he was comming over and not turn up or even bother to phone thats when i realised this guy doesnt make me happy anymore, he does'nt even make me feel loved but what makes me doubt the decision ive made is that i love him - Shall i let him go for good or ask him bk?
2006-11-09 11:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by kel100 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go.
2006-11-09 11:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't easy but i think you made the right choice, unless he comes back to you and he says he's sorry and he loves you. feeling in love comes and goes.but if you run back to hime he will make you feel the same and it will be a circle repeated for ever till something gets burned and you can;t take it anymore. i know its now easy, but be strong.. do whats healthiest to your kids
you will be loved again don't worry
ok
bye now
2006-11-09 11:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by johnnny805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you just just give it time and see how you feel. Right now you are upset still, so don't make and decisions until you have had time to think them over.
2006-11-09 11:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by churppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go Mam! this is an unhealthy situation for your kids and you just deserve to be with someone who has his priorities right. it is better to be alone than to be with the wrong man.besides you think you love him because you have not allowed yourself to look back at the heartache he brought you.build your self esteem again.
2006-11-09 11:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by sherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need time to think.
thts the only way u'll know if u still luv him or not.
give it sum time and u'll know the answer.
dont make any ahsty desicions when ur upset.
2006-11-09 11:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by icegal06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the loneliness make you make bad decisions ,,
remember not to just settle ,, if its not right ,, don't try to make it work ,,
2006-11-09 11:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he is releived to see the back of you
2006-11-09 11:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must, must, MUST let go. it will not be easy at first, but is imortant that you do what is right for you - do not take him back.
2006-11-09 11:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by ___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS TERRIBLE GIRL I FEEL SO BAD FOR YOU BREAK UP AS SOON AS YOU CAN I AM SSSSSSOOOOO SORRY
2006-11-09 11:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by I ♥ Tommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋