My boyfriend and I have been going out for nine months, and he knows that all I read is romance books and I'm a helpless romantic. But he hasn't done anything romantic. I know I should just talk to him about it, but I'm too nervous. How can I make him more romantic?
2006-11-09 11:14:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys aren't romantic in the ways girls want them to be. Look for other signs of his love, such as faithfulness, honesty, attention and loyalty. Just show your own version of romance to him, maybe he'll like it, but don't expect anything or you'll be disappointed. Focus on his good points. And...those romance novels are for entertainment! Who has a life like that??? haha
2006-11-09 11:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, you need to know from the start...Love life isn't a romance novel...Life doesn't work that way... Reality doesn't allow it.. I don't believe you can make a man be a romantic, it's just something that comes natural for them. You can put books, magazines and such in his path so that he can read them and maybe pick up some from that. But know just because he isn't a romantic like you, doesn't mean he doesn't love you..You can also be romantic with him and help him along, it doesn't always have to be the guy's place..Good Luck....
2006-11-09 11:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by tmjf461 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by u doing something romantic.Like make a picnic lunch and take him on it. Then tell him u like doing romantic things.Give him a romantic book and tell him to read it and maybe take some pointers on it.In a joking way that is...Good luck
2006-11-09 11:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. If he is not romantic at the begging he probably won't change...
2006-11-09 11:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant
he has to realize it hisself
2006-11-09 11:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ray K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, I agree... You can't change him.
2006-11-09 11:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋