I don't remember having any kind of special relationship with my father, although I stayed with my parents for about 20 years. He was very abusive to my mother and to the kids too. But he would buy very expensive stuff for her and for us. Though he tried to be loving to us (kids) sometimes , I thought he was pretending and his attitude was very irritating for me, in other words I couldn't stand him, even now. I thought he was the most rude, cruel and selfish person on the earth. Of coures its more than 5 years that I am living in my house and visit my parents occasionally, but even for that short visit , my experinece is not very pleasant, because I don't like him at all. I love my mother, but don't want to visit her anymore because of my dad as they are staying together. My mother doesn't like him, but she just accepts what the life has to offer.
Please give me some advice, how to handle this situation.
2006-11-09
11:55:32
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Just4YA
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Marriage & Divorce