Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

Do you think some men are afraid or leary about posting their questions in this section of Y! Answers, fearing they may be looked down upon or judged? I've read a few questions now from men who seemed like they were almost scared to post, because they may have done something 'wrong' or looked down upon by some of the people Y! answers. Have you noticed this also? Comments, complaints, concerns?
Well, if you're one of these men, I'm here to tell you there's no reason to be leary about posting, as long as it's sincere there are alot of people out here who won't pass judgement on you. :)

2006-11-09 12:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ugh! why would a guy ask me to go skinny dipping with him when hes 4yrs older than me and I didnt even know him, he just owns the cabin next to ours?!

why why why why!?!?!? what the hell?!

2006-11-09 12:51:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had said to me "I'll call you from work." That was a couple of weeks ago and now he is saying it's not possible to call me from work cause of the company's bills that would show his personal phonecall. Not only he is changing his story but has a cell phone too ..I guess the minutes are too precious to spend on me..And the funny thing is I'm saying all this not cause I want him to call but cause I want to say to him "save them"...

PS when i asked him about this inconsistency he of course neglected to reply

2006-11-09 12:51:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my ex fiance broke up 5 months ago. we were together for 4 yrs. I have a child of my own that he helped me raise for those yrs like it was his child also. He has since moved on into a new relationship, however he still wants to be a part of my child's life. Whenever i talk to him he tells me that he's still in love with me and whenever he sees me he is all over me, yet he tells me that he doesn't want to be with me. He is very active in my daughter's life, but wants to be able to have this other woman around my daughter. my daughter loves him as a father and i don't want to take that from her, but i feel like i can't move on because he's still in the picture. He still comes over and spends time with me, but will not do anything outside of the home with me like we use to. Whenever i ask him about this other woman, he speaks highly of her but then tells me how he feels like he can't be himself around her. is he just leading me on? what should i do? please help.

2006-11-09 12:51:23 · 2 answers · asked by Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 12:51:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Had a totally mind altering, earth shattering orgasm? And sex with yourself doesn't count either...sorry!!!

2006-11-09 12:51:08 · 15 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

Good day. I am meeting a girl i am intrested in the December holidays for the first time. We both doin schoolwork so we have no time to meet or even go out. I THINK she is intrested in me but I Am intrested in her but is until u meet someone in person u will get to kno them better and see if to move on to the next step. I would like to kno what shud i buy and bring cause i mean first meeting dont wanna go with my hands swinging. I'm thinking about choclate, 2-3 friends said a blue rose but wudnt that be a lil strong? Thanks

2006-11-09 12:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by The Honourable 4 in Singles & Dating

i live in the US
It's for parental rights so I need a family lawyer

2006-11-09 12:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have a bf and i luv him! but sometimes i just feel like theres no connection like i only feel 1 when we kiss but thats it wut should i do!
im really confused help!
thanx!

2006-11-09 12:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not the first marriage for eithe of us and we want to do an intimate, quiet, dinner ceremony with NO CHILDREN. Our own children won't even be there.
Will family members invited who have children be offended? And if WE pay for the dinner, does it matter?

2006-11-09 12:48:08 · 13 answers · asked by moniquebell 3 in Weddings

how the hell are WE supposed to know? Tell ya what my little geniuses, if you don't have the moxie to ask yourself, have a friend ask them..problem solved.

2006-11-09 12:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Nice 2 in Singles & Dating

Say you've been chatting with this person for two weeks straight, you chat almost every day, you have good chat converstaions, and you like a lot the same things, do you thinks its ok or safe to give you cell number to this person, I consider him an online friend. So is it okay to give it to hin, he's only 2yrs older than me. im 19, he's 21.

2006-11-09 12:47:02 · 12 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Friends

he stares at me and smiles. He called me funny smart and nice. He pokes me and play around with me. He talks to me about random stuff when he comes in the class room.

We are both on the swim team but he seems to be trying relly hard and he looks extra stupid. And when he sees me wating on the wall he tells me he has a cramp or is extra tired.

He said he knew where i lived and was stalking me then he talked about a movie he wanted to see and told me that looks don't matter and how he did not like some girl.

Is All this for a reason??? Or am i crazy and tryna make somthing outta nothing, she i ask him out somwhere. I mean we have practice everyday mon-fri so we see each other alot.


HELP!!!

2006-11-09 12:47:01 · 3 answers · asked by Nehsa 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so glad that Britney is finally leaving K-Fed. I am sure I am the right guy for her. How do I go about getting in touch with her & letting her know my feelings without getting beaten up by her security guards and being arrested again?

2006-11-09 12:47:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Paul, he likes the same things I like. Like basketball. He's funny, I'm funny, He's a little smart, I'm smart. I've been noticing that he's been staring at me not that often, making little attention, and maybe those stuff. Does it mean he likes me or am I just dreaming this? my last crush's name was also Paul and I left him without goodbye, am I just liking this guy because he has the same name as he does.... Hey, I'm just a seventh grader and am I even allowed to have this feelings? need help, seriously!

2006-11-09 12:46:49 · 2 answers · asked by Zashtaquir 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 12:46:44 · 19 answers · asked by anuron2000 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy i like and i want to get over him and on w/ my life so the only way for me to do that is if he knows so i'm not left wondering what could have been and blah, blah,blah. lol couldn't slip him the letter i wrote in his locker him and since i won't see him in person anymore there's no chance for me to tell him. what do you think i should do?

2006-11-09 12:46:40 · 6 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Singles & Dating

how do i stop having thoughts about getting revenge on my friend? i'm trying to change and be less dominant...i want to get revenge bcuz she's put up home videos of her and 'new' friends that she dumped/ditched me for on www.youtube.com???

2006-11-09 12:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Chanel 3 in Friends

My boyfriend says that if I don't stop loving on my new baby boy(one and only)he will turn out to be gay.How many of you agree.I can't stop lovin on him.

2006-11-09 12:45:56 · 5 answers · asked by oregoncheeto 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This boy in my 4th and 6th period class told me that he likes me.He gets all the girls but for some reason he likes me of all of them. Yesterday he tried to kiss me but one of my crazy best friends Eddie yanked me in to the class room. I wanted to kiss him.But i dont think i would have any way.Every time i look him in the eyes i get butter flies. So what do you think about this?

2006-11-09 12:45:40 · 5 answers · asked by Bree Lynne 1 in Friends

... we just meet once in a while and "do it" just that... nothing more...we enjoy n have a good time together...no strings attached or anything... we both enjoy what we are doing... nobody knows about what we have...it is our big secret... comments???

2006-11-09 12:45:18 · 23 answers · asked by luv_me 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my bff might be mad at me cause i like her ex what should i do i mean it isn't my fault i can't really just stop liking him. i have aready asked her if she was mad about it, she said she wasn't but i kinda think she is

2006-11-09 12:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by baby g 2 in Singles & Dating

I know some people have high sex drive at old ages but am talking about majority. I want to know at what age does a male have his highest sex drive, please tell me at what age it start and what age it finish

2006-11-09 12:44:57 · 3 answers · asked by TRUTH WILL SPREAD 1 in Singles & Dating

hi. Could you please tell me what your age is with your answer?

Does this girl sound attractive to you? (I'm not fishing for compliments, I'm seriously wondering because I dont have a boyfriend)

Looks:
blondish brown hair, down to like armpits, side bangs, wavyish curly some days, straight other days
brown-green eyes
straight teeth
light freckles on nose
5'8
135
measurements: 36-28-38

Personality:
-smart
- doesnt like to drink, or smoke
-doesnt act like a hoe
- knows how to flirt tho
-quiet wheny you dont know her...after a while shes not as quiet
-likes to go ATVing, go on boats, go running, play basketball (isnt the best though)
- likes to write,ikes to draw,likes fashion
- sometimes emmotional

2006-11-09 12:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally think that it must be boring to be with a man who's a gynecologist cause he sees loads of women all the time and so when he sees his partner probably he doesn't feel like WOW, because when you're with a man who isn't a gynecologist they are always WOW when they see women naked or when they are with them. That's what I think but what do YOU think???

2006-11-09 12:42:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf has problems having sex with me she says it hurts too much
im only 9 inches but very thick close to the size of a can of soup
is there a way or position i could use to make it less painfull for her cause once a wekk is not enough for me

2006-11-09 12:42:49 · 9 answers · asked by kiingbee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 12:42:42 · 5 answers · asked by cat hick 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so everybody at my school calls me the spoiled one the one who always has nice clothes, the one who looks rich and buys her clothes from abercrombie and hollister. Truthfully i wasn't always spoiled and i didn't always look nice. When i was 2-8 yrs old my dad was violent he would always hit us for no reason and he almost killed my mom with a knife still for no reason. When i was 8 yrs old me and my mom and my nana moved and that was a big deal for me because i would be leaving my friends. When i was 12 my mom wanted to move to greece and the night before cops arrested her for some reason and i had to go to a shelter.After i lived at the shelter for a week my dad picked me up and i lived with him for a year. He slapped me once and i hit him and told him that you are never going to slap me again and i had a bruse on my nose from where he slapped me.

2006-11-09 12:41:37 · 10 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 12:40:54 · 22 answers · asked by mbtafan 3 in Singles & Dating

to change every quality in a man that they found so damn attractive
at the start of the relationship. once they get their box of tampax in the cabinet under the mans bathroom sink.

2006-11-09 12:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by mark_grvr 3 in Singles & Dating