how do i stop having thoughts about getting revenge on my friend? i'm trying to change and be less dominant...i want to get revenge bcuz she's put up home videos of her and 'new' friends that she dumped/ditched me for on www.youtube.com???
2006-11-09 12:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Chanel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just realize that you are more than that.
You don't need revenge.
If she's done something wrong to you, she'll get what she deserves because what goes around comes around.
Show her that you don't need her.
Show her that she isn't bugging you one bit.
That way she'll know that she isn't getting to you.
Show her that she can't control your emotions.
2006-11-09 12:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just don't think about her. Put ur mind on other things like homework or just boys or something. That could help just anything reall! But not her. Then get u some new friends express to them how u feel! Just play or sport or naything to keep ur mind off of her!
2006-11-09 12:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get involved with a new bunch of people. Maybe a theatre group? Something that will get you out of the house and away from the computer at any rate.
This way too, you can "act out" your frustrations too.
2006-11-09 12:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by trocaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to think about it
Just do it andget it over with because it will make you feel better.
Well you don't have too but she wouldn't really be you friend now would she
2006-11-09 12:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face your friend. tell him/her that you don't like the way your friend did. ask him what if your friend is on your situation??
2006-11-09 13:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by pinkshirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of videos was it were there clothes off
2006-11-09 12:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋