... we just meet once in a while and "do it" just that... nothing more...we enjoy n have a good time together...no strings attached or anything... we both enjoy what we are doing... nobody knows about what we have...it is our big secret... comments???
2006-11-09 12:45:18 · 23 answers · asked by luv_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i got next
2006-11-09 12:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you are... everybody needs a little somethig without extra strings attached, but be carefull those strings might hang you some day. It's my friends brother and he is a lot older than me, I always wonder when we'll get caught or what would happen in the future. Sometimes I have to remind myself to not get to attached. But i'm having fun for now... Good luck with your situation
2006-11-09 20:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Girly-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. THeres not reason why someone that doesnt want a relationship cant have the same sexual satisfaction. I dont think there is anything wrong with it. Just make sure you both know it is nothing serious, and dont get upset if you find out the other person is doing the same thing with other people.
2006-11-09 20:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever floats your boat...
How many other people is your friend being with?
Are you putting yourself at risk in some way?
THINK THINK THINK....
But each time you are together in that way
you are giving a part of yourself away.
Something you can't get back...
Someday you'll be all gone.
There is something to be said...
for waiting for that special person.
What will there be left to share between the two of you, only?
2006-11-09 20:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If neither of you is in a relationship with another or in a situation where innocents could be hurt (like children), and you are taking precautions agains STDs and pregnancy, then fine. However, if any other innocent is at risk from this activity.....you contracting a disease and passing it on or die, a child is conceived, then no I don't think it is fine.
2006-11-09 20:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being friends with benefits. Everyone needs some kind of satisfaction and if both of you are comfortable with the arrangement that you have then keep doing what your doing it's your prerogative to do what you want to do.
2006-11-09 20:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by H Town Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a surgery on my uterus when I was 30, and since than, I don't enjoy sex. My only regret in life is that I did not have more sex when I enjoyed it. So, do what makes you happy. It is no body's business but yours.
2006-11-09 20:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by sheba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a real big secret, no strings attached it's a booty call.
2006-11-09 20:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then, why are you telling us? Before I began a relationship like this the guy looked at me and said "I don't want you to have any regrets," and I didn't and still don't. As long as you feel that way and protect yourself, go for it.
2006-11-09 20:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by beccacharm3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's going to begin caring about it. And then there will be drama, hurt feelings, misunderstandings... Just be ready for that. Until then... have fun. Who knows... maybe you'll both begin caring about it, and eachother. Sex can lead to other things.
2006-11-09 20:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by barnett811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be a steady or serious relationship, but if you are friends and having sex, it is still a relationship. Sooner or later, it'll have to progress or fizzle out.
2006-11-09 20:49:02 · answer #11 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋