why do women set out?

Question

to change every quality in a man that they found so damn attractive
at the start of the relationship. once they get their box of tampax in the cabinet under the mans bathroom sink.

Answer 1

I love everything about my husband, BUT he is no longer a bachelor.. it wasn't his leaving the toilet seat up or his nail biting or his not picking up after himself that I fell in love with. He didn't fall in love with MY cracking knuckles, burning cookies, or talking baby talk to the dog, either..

When people live together, there gets to be things that annoy the other.. If a relationship is ever going to happen in the long term, both parties need to bend a bit.

It's not that we want to change you or that you want to change us, God I think gets a kick out of putting two people together that were raised by two different sets of parents and watching their little quirks get under the other's skin. True love is accomodating, not blind..

Answer 2

Due to the fact that I do not want to tell a lie, I will simple state that I do not know why most women unconsciously decide that certain things about their boyfriend has to change. Maybe it is because women are attempting to make their boyfriend less appealing to other women by having them do and become things that other women may find unattractive. However, in doing so, many women end up creating a man that is much more attractive to other women than he was when she first meet him. Of course this is only a guess.

Answer 3

LOL that is so funny cause I was thinking the same thing this afternoon. I personally don't want a lame boyfriend or husband, but I don't want one that I can push around either. I think it's an individual thing. I would like to change things that my husband do.....like him leaving the seat up in the bathroom or him not wanting to do dishes instead of helping out, but at the same time I'm sure that there are things that he would pretty much like to change about me. Like maybe more sex........LOL. It's human nature. Remember also that when you started dating, you only let her see the nice side of you. No one is perfect. I'm pretty sure that there are things that you would love to change about her. Think about it.

Answer 4

Grrrr!!!
I sense some issues, not all women are like that but both parties in a relationship need to change to accomodate each other it is just the way it works.

Answer 5

Darling I wish I knew. I try not to do it though. So far its working and the relationship is great. I think someone just love the control in a relationship.

Answer 6

because now the feel like they are in charge. Now if this is happening to u then just dump the girl that your with because even though I am a girl I do belive that the guy should be in charge to a certian exstint but still in charge!

Answer 7

I heard somewhere once that what a woman finds initally attractive in a man, she will later come to find annoying. Interesting, huh?

Answer 8

because women litteraly can grow up over night... like one day i was immature and thought everything my now husband did was funny as hell, then one day, i just woke up and thought damn, this guy is really stupid.. I dunno, our personalitites change from month to month. Not to mention generally a lot of women are b!tches, but cant admit it.

Answer 9

THEY WANT YOU TO BE LIKE THIER FATHERS. IF YOU LOVE HER DO WHAT SHE ASKS OF YOU. TELL HER TO BE FAIR AND DO THE SAME FOR YOU IN THE FURTURE.

Answer 10

because you ae dating the wrong ones