2006-11-09 12:42:42 · 5 answers · asked by cat hick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can answer that...
2006-11-09 12:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the record show that part of the reason you dont have a boyfriend is in the very way you act and think. Take the question your asking. Youre asking why cant i have a boyfriend when you should have asked what can i do to imporve my chances of suceeding with men. What i mean is it all starts with you. If you dont even think positive about yourself or doing things you desire such as finding someone, then you are doomed to fail without even knowing it. Second you have to consider if you really need a boyfriend. Yes it might feel like you do but you have to put it in perspective. Is your self esteem high? Do you go out often? Are you social. Have you created a life of your own that allows you to have fun and live without having to worry about a boyfriend every 5 mintues. That doesnt mean that you dont have needs. It just means that you have to boost up your self confidence and believe that who you are is good enough for any man you desire. If you dont believe that it will show as stated earlier and it will bring failure as opposed to success. Other things to consider is how you carry yourself as a woman or a young woman if you are underaged. When guys see you do they say wow yes she is attractive but theres something about her that intrigues me, or facinates me. Or do they say anything at all? Do they even give you the time of day? Do you even give men the time of day? Do you flirt or have a sense of humor? I know you complement your lady friends as women do that sort of thing naturally. But do you complement men or at least your guy friends and the men you desire? These are just some ideas to help you re- evaluate yourself and see how fixing these fundamentals can help you go along way towards meeting men and having a boyfriend if you feel that is what you really want. Good luck!
2006-11-09 21:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I ask that same question most of the time. Although I don't exactly look like a star, but I look ok, and I look better than many other gals, I can't get myself a real bf. Sure some guys would notice me but that's all. Maybe because of a lot of reasons.... too strong personality that intimidate guys... or because we don't take time to notice guys who notice us. Or could be that we have very high standards or we are looking in a different direction. We don't go out that much to meet and get to know enough guys. I don't know, maybe if there's a guy that's meant for us, he'll come at the right time. In God's time. Keep trusting. :)
2006-11-09 20:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a boyfriend. It's easy.....
1.just say yes to the next guy who asks you out
2.Ask a guy out
2006-11-09 20:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know maybe ur not attractive and u don't flirt that could be a reason!
2006-11-09 20:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋