how do i stop this? ( boys help me)?

Question

so these guys in my school joke around with me a lot and one day when i asked them why they said i was the only girl who could take a joke. now this past week to rumors have been started about me. one is saying i am going out with this bigger guy, and im not and every body now it but they wont stop saying really perverted stuff about me and him (ex: today they were all saying " he told me that he got to third base today") it he second one was about how i let this guy feel me up at a football game and this guy is going along with it and hes adding his own comments. i want theses rumors to stop i don't understand why i am the only girl who is being treated like this. how do i make them stop without telling someone before it gets way out of hand.

Answer 1

avoiding them sounds like a good idea to me. by you getting all upset by this they will just continue to tease you and such. you sound like you are still in high school and its true there are a lot of horny immature kids there i was one once as are most of high school age boys. there really is nothing you can do about making them change boys will be boys. by telling them in a group they will probably only laugh it off and move on but if you talked to them individually and say this is really bothering me what you are doing and i don't want to go to a teacher and rat you out but if you continue to do what you are doing then i will have no choice. you could also avoid them they should get the hint that you don't find time with them enjoyable so you prefer to hang out with other people. another thing you could do is not show ANY reaction to what they are saying....from what i have seen the only way someone will continue to tease another is when they get a reaction. so if you don't give them a reaction to feed off of they might get bored of teasing you and stop. now i am not saying this is it on what you could do but its a start and i hope it helps.

Answer 2

THEY ARE CHILDISH AND YOU SHOULD IGNORE IT