I was just wandering, If Im a virgin and I was dating you for a long time, but I didnt want to? would you try and force me and tell me if I loved you I would?
2006-11-09 12:08:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My wife and I dated for a while before we had sex. If you really love someone, you hold each other, kiss and cuddle. You just want to be together. If sex happens when both parties are cool with it that's fine. I should never be forced, especially if you're still a virgin. It can never be taken back once lost. If the relationship doesn't work out, no regrets. Better than feeling badly about it for years to come.
2006-11-09 12:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy. BUT I am a twenty year old virgin who has been with the same man for five years. We are getting married next august and our wedding night will be our first time. If a guy loves you ENOUGH you two will do whatever you want, if he doesn't, someone else will.
Wait as long as you want and remember there are other intimate things you can do.
2006-11-09 20:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by sucha_jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I would treat our relationship very serious because I want to have sex with the person I marry before I marry them.
If a guy really loved you and cared about you, he wouldn't force you. If it's not something you want, get rid of him.
2006-11-09 20:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I respect girls too much to do that. It' s not right to force someone into it. Especially just for pleasure. How about they get married and then they won't have to force people.
2006-11-09 20:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sportsman64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, Thats just some bullshit guys say to get into girls pants, It's just annoying i would tell him the deal and if he leaves oh well..
2006-11-09 20:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by xonexnxonlyandyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless I didn't really care about you. It should be something that both sides want to do and are comfortouble with.
2006-11-09 20:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by DotDotDot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope . if you respect someone you would never try to force them to do anything. if he don't respect you he is not worth what you believe in
2006-11-09 20:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope just move to another who will get with the program
2006-11-09 20:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if he loved u he would respect u
2006-11-10 17:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by holdnnmyown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where were u wandering at?
2006-11-09 20:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by a36dbabydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋