what to do when he's already asked me out?

Question

I'm not allowed to date for another month and a half and this guy..I barely know him..has already told me he's going to wait til I can date and then ask me out. he's a nice guy and I'm interested but I know that I can't say 'yes' to him. he isn't a christian like me I know that that means he won't pass my dad's 'criteria'. what do I do? I won't even be able to go out on a date until my dad has questioned him about all sorts of things. and my dad knows that I'm not certain about his religion..he says that I would've known by now. so I'm pretty sure that means my dad would tell him no when he finally asks...I'm in a pickle and I need advice!

Answer 1

I think this might work , I think if he is a real nice guy and your father sees that he treats you well. Start out by taking him out on a double date and tell your father that you are going out with your friend, you wouldn't be lying you just wouldn't be telling him everything. Take him out a couple of times to see what kind of guy he really is. Then if you want to keep going out with him, tell your father that there is this nice guy that you want him to meet that you would like to go out with. I think if your straight up honest with him, he is probally worried about having you date a guy that is abusive or a bad guy, have him see him so he can see he's not such a bad guy.