Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I used to be a very open fun loving person but then I got hurt in a few relationships. Now Im always doubting/analyzing myself, and I constantly wonder if/how people are judging me. I can't even go on my myspace page sometimes because I don't want to change something that might make me look bad (I know that sounds stupid), and would rather remain a mystery.

2006-11-09 18:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well gromed, love to cuddle, snuggle, movies, cart racing, NASCAR, football, making wine, dinners with me cooking it. Having alot of fun and making sure i please my woman.

2006-11-09 18:51:15 · 7 answers · asked by soutahll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a guy for several months. He told me he's visited strip joints and fondled the women. He said he liked women of a certain race because they were big breasted and had large bottoms. Then he told me I should change the color of my hair. I'm a natural brunette and have no desire to change my hair color. After he told me all of this I felt physically sick to my stomach and I just wanted away from him. After he left I thought to myself this is the last time you will ever see or hear from me again. I need women's advise, please tell me what you would do? Can you understand how I feel??
Serious replies only please!

2006-11-09 18:48:07 · 18 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have been chattin up and stuff for the past 4 months.ive fallen for him SO badly..and he has too. except he has a gf..which he would be gettin married to, sometime soon..im hurtin so badly inside. he told me dat he loves me and dat he wants to be with me, but his and her parents have decided for marriage. she knows about me..and "My relationship" dat i have with him.. she tries hard to separate us.. but my heart yearns for him..and altho he tells me we should stop b4 things get really serious.but we still end up callin and contactin each other. i dont wanna let him go. i love him so much.

2006-11-09 18:47:01 · 21 answers · asked by Straw^BerrY A 1 in Singles & Dating

Throughout our relationship and our marriage I was very stubborn and lazy. I also refused to compromise. Over time, my husband gave up and began acting the same way and he ended up leaving me. We have talked since but he refuses to come over fearing that I have not changed and I am going to be the same negative person I was before. How can I show him that I have changed when he won't even let me see him? It's getting to the point where he will barely answer my phone calls.....

2006-11-09 18:45:35 · 24 answers · asked by ProudToBeWhite 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 18:45:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-09 18:44:52 · 24 answers · asked by John F 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents divorced like idk....11 years ago or so. Me and my sisters were close with my dad. Since he remarried like 7 years ago he hast been supportive or even acknowledged us in any way ..really. I asked him a while back why he aint a supportive father.. I said is it your own personal choice? or is it the choice ur wife gave u? He said both. How can someone live with that? knowing the picked their wife over their own kids?

* Aside from this I do have a extremly suportive realtionship w/ my mother and step father.. just thought I'd add that.

2006-11-09 18:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am quite ugly (very hairy, bad teeth, short, fat, red hair, pale, freckles) however i feel like i am even uglier on the inside. i dont have any close friends, more like associates. example: at the pub with a couple of guys that i know when 4 other guys come over and bash me, while the others just watched. i dont think they are mates, but they're the closest ive got even after that.
i have destroyed relationships with other family members, and there is really nothin good about me. my mum is the only one that still puts up with me. she does however infuriate me, along with everyone else i know. I dont understand why i am so angry and such an ass hole, but its just my nature and instinct to be that way. what do you do when your not good looking or a good person? i was thinkin a bullet

2006-11-09 18:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my had a chick who treated him like **** said he has the smallest d*ck and he never got her off spent his bday at a club and said she used him as a way to pass the time
would consider gettin back with her

2006-11-09 18:42:23 · 7 answers · asked by lv23smurf 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 18:41:14 · 35 answers · asked by rekha 1 in Weddings

a girl wants to be called beautifull so what does a guyyy wanna be called?!

2006-11-09 18:40:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know if I should forgive my boyfriend of 5 years who I caught writing emails 2 a girl from school.Since we live 2gether, 1 day I turned on the home computer to go online & it was logged in under my boyfriend so I checked his email and there I found an email from a girl.It said something about clubbing 1 night.I wrote back to her but til know she has not wrote back.Since I didnt have a good feeling about this I went under his cell phone account, which I had never done.I felt bad but I just had to get this done.After logging in to the account I couldn't believe it there were so many calls 2 the girls phone number, that broke me into pieces.Then when he got home I confronted him & he didnt know what to respond, which got me out of control.First he denied her than he explained to me that it was only an old friend from college. I just dont know how I never found out since it had been going for 5 months.We actually are not together on weekends & those were the nights he would talk2her

2006-11-09 18:40:37 · 11 answers · asked by MARYLOU P 2 in Singles & Dating

MY BEST FIREND RECENTLY WENT FOR A TRIP TO N.Y.C. AND KNOW HES A TOTALY DIFERNT PERSON.WHAT TO DO

2006-11-09 18:39:48 · 7 answers · asked by THE ROUNDEST KNIGHT OF THE TABLE 1 in Friends

in your life...If you are truly happy I AM HAPPY FOR YOU..but those of us who are not....where did your plan falter?

2006-11-09 18:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by Justcurious81 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 18:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by breathetheheat 1 in Weddings

I have a friend that really likes me and I like her to but only as a friend. She is a pretty big girl which I didnt think would bother me but everytime I think about starting something with her I can only think about her weight. I know that outer appearance shouldnt matter but it is all I can think about. I dont like being this way but cant help it. What do you think.

2006-11-09 18:36:27 · 15 answers · asked by NEED HELP 2 in Singles & Dating

this really hot guy just broke up with his girlfriend and is now dating me. the old girlfriend used to be my best friend-but not anymore. should i be happy that im with him or be sad i lost a friends ship?

2006-11-09 18:35:39 · 18 answers · asked by coolness 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to say when i see a girl when im in the mall or a restaurant i also dont know what to say when im with my friends that are girls i need help i see this girl in school but i dont know what to say i am a very shy person i need help so i can not be shy i really need help on how to talk to girls i dont know what to say when my friends introuduce me to girls and i just stand their untill she talks please help

2006-11-09 18:35:35 · 6 answers · asked by junior m 1 in Friends

i just got a mail from my friend on my mobile and it was a chain mail with a pic attached.
it's a pic of the guy in our school. he is a geek and has no friends.
someone took his pic secretly at school and sending it to all his friends with funny comments about his looks.
i have seen him bullied by other guys many times before and i'm sure one of them made this mail.
of course i'm not gonna send this mail to anyone.

should i talk to a teacher about this mail? this is so mean.
the title of this mail is " hey look at this freak!!"

2006-11-09 18:34:21 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Friends

The woman I love is a lesbi@n and lives with her lover. I really love this woman and she told me that she might convert to bi with me if I do all her housework for her. Its been six months now and I she still doesn't let me kiss her above her ankles. I am getting really tired of cleaning her house and buying them dinner etc. Is there anything else I can do? I have already tried, chocolates, flowers, diamonds and poetry. I even told her I wouldn't mind sharing her if thats what she wants. Please help

2006-11-09 18:30:12 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanx for your help...

2006-11-09 18:28:06 · 20 answers · asked by ivy 1 in Singles & Dating

i have yeo chocies to make loss all my friends or still go out withthe guy i am dating even thought i don't like him that way any more!u know what makes the matters horrible? it's my friends cousin! and he can get a little high strung too, plus he treaten me by saying if i ever break up with brandon he would tell everone some made up story!! i need your hep!!!

2006-11-09 18:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by shorty_sarah_zamora 1 in Singles & Dating

And what are you currently doing besides answering my question...

2006-11-09 18:24:09 · 27 answers · asked by Justcurious81 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I was just wondering, what is your definition of love? Detailed answers with personal experience would be most appreciated

2006-11-09 18:24:08 · 20 answers · asked by Jade64 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy and i was set up on a blind date,it turned out really good.At least i thought it did.We talked like we had known each other forever.When he got ready to leave he said he had a good time and every thing was nice.He's a very nice man ,somebody i would like to get to know better.He told me some really personal things about himself.His wife died about 7 yrs. ago. As for as i know and by what he has told others he is not seeing anybody.The thing is he didn't ask for my phone number so he hasn't called.Some of my friends though that i should call him. Since then i have called him three times he is always nice and says that i am not bothering him at all. But i do feel like i am pushing him by trying to stay in touch. I don't want to lose this newly found friend.

2006-11-09 18:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by darlyparly 1 in Singles & Dating

I can sometimes hear his name and get sooo angry. How do I concentrate on my positive progress and not remember the hurt sooo much? Any suggestions will be appreciated.

2006-11-09 18:22:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 42 yr widowed lady for 8 yrs. I have been told I am not bad looking and great personality. Where would a woman like myself find a good man. Someone that is open, honest and down to earth and easy on the eyes. Nonsmoker and nondruggy is perfered. Oh and I love sweet charming smiles and great bear hugs.

2006-11-09 18:21:22 · 13 answers · asked by cnacyn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 18:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going out for 7 yrs., and not once he tried to touch me. Oh my mistake he did try once, but I said something that he got offened. He took me to the beach where know one would see what we are doing. We were in his car at that time. I got scared because I haven't seen him for 1 yr, and we just stared dating again, and something happen to me when I was 12 yrs., and I said the water smells like fish because we were by the waters. He got offended, and he took me home. I did not know what was going to happen because I was scared and nervous. I dod not know what he wanted to do until I got into my apartment, by the time it was too late, and the next day I called his cell and left a message say that I was sorry, and he came to pick me up the same I left the messager, but he never said anything to me. We conutie gonigout, but he never tried to touch me, kiss me. Later on I find out that he was afraid of me because what happened, and plus I kind of slap him.

2006-11-09 18:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating