i need help on how to talk to girls?

Question

i dont know what to say when i see a girl when im in the mall or a restaurant i also dont know what to say when im with my friends that are girls i need help i see this girl in school but i dont know what to say i am a very shy person i need help so i can not be shy i really need help on how to talk to girls i dont know what to say when my friends introuduce me to girls and i just stand their untill she talks please help

Answer 1

Well, first of all you have to remember that girls are human beings, too...just like guys! And they're not going to bite you! So just talk to them like you would ANYBODY else...After being introduced, you should find something you like about her...maybe it's her perfume or the pink sweater she's wearing. Or, maybe you liked her name, her hair, her spongebob socks...and then tell her...that's a pretty name...hey! I have some spongebob socks like that, too.......You don't have to sound clever and you don't even have to talk very much, really...the girl will do all that, BELIEVE me! Mostly they want guys to LISTEN....don't try and tell them how to fix their problems..just LISTEN and BE YOURSELF!

Answer 2

Oh, here we go again, a crying little boy...
Here's what I told another guy a few days back, and his responses - it worked for him, so you got TWO guys behind this now - go get 'em, tiger:

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker

1) be self-confident, but NOT arrogant and cold;
2) be a good listener; i.e., don't talk too much - ask questions and listen carefully;
3) make her laugh.
4) be with her - as in, don't run down this - or any other - checklist, interact actively with the girl you're with;
5) be genuine and sincere - they'll smell liars & fakesm and then you're not even history - you're forgotten before you hear goodbye.


Asker's Rating:
YOU REALLY HAVE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT GIRLS BEHAVIOUR CAUSE I HAVE TRIED THESE THINGS AND WAS SUCCESFUL.. I WOULD LIKE TO ASK SOME MORE THINGS ON THIS TOPIC... AND UR ANSWER IS GREAT

Answer 3

If your are shy, then you should not NOT be trying to get women in a mall or fast food joint. There is so much anxiety when trying to approach a cute girl that you will probably screw it up. try some place where discussion among strangers is the norm

Answer 4

definitly b urself and if she says no...shes not worth it and if she says yes but then constantly says wut she doesnt like about u she also isnt worth it. ask her out wen u can bc u never kno if she likes u 2

Answer 5

are you gay? maybe you should come out of that closet and talk to the boys.

Answer 6

cocky/funny works too