Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

me and my other friend are having some prblems with our other friend and its somthing really serious she told us not to tell any one but i think in this case we have no chocie but to tell some one... what do u think? should we tell and loose her trust and possibly friendship?

2006-11-09 18:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by Veronca M 1 in Friends

she told me this morning in a txt message not to wait for her, she said that I should forget her, though I've already emaled her and said no I'm going to wait for her to fix things and to sort herself out, and that because I love her I aint going to forget her...

anyway considering that she has a major problem at the moment in her life and we love eachother why did she do this?
ideas?

Mitch

2006-11-09 18:18:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and i'm 29 years of age now. Anyway i'm a black and a resident of the U.K. is there anyway i can propose to a woman via email or a chat room ? or is there any site that i can meet women who are desperate as i am to get married? thanx all....

2006-11-09 18:18:16 · 6 answers · asked by Alfred a 1 in Weddings

2006-11-09 18:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by VL MAN 2 in Family

Date's Coming up tonight, and I want to make sure that I know what I am doing and that I don't repulse her when I Kiss her, please help!!!! Simple guidelines and techniques, or maybe I am just being to paranoid?

2006-11-09 18:17:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 18:16:35 · 6 answers · asked by 👑 Veteran Gentlemen Big Wiggly 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont like that my gf should go with boys of her group coz all r *** hole and she dont understan me i just dont like this pls help me

2006-11-09 18:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by Harshil K 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my gilrfriend is unfaithful and i keep trying to end the relationship so she can move on, but she won't end the relationship, what do you think this mean ?

p.s. ladies i could really use your advice.

2006-11-09 18:14:42 · 22 answers · asked by ausaramenra2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
I have a crush on my school buddy. We had crush on eachother when we were in school, but we didnt spoke a single word at that time. 3 days back we met online and now only sending some formal emails. I still have a crush on her. But she is married recently. what should i do..should i tell her or no....has anybody gone through such scenario..Plz answer..need serious advice..

2006-11-09 18:14:16 · 19 answers · asked by knoppix4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 18:12:50 · 26 answers · asked by 👑 Veteran Gentlemen Big Wiggly 7 in Marriage & Divorce

it's my best friend's sweet sixteen (she's a girl, obviously). i need ideas! please help.

2006-11-09 18:11:46 · 9 answers · asked by tiffany 2 in Friends

Really just curious

2006-11-09 18:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4 in Singles & Dating

OK so I have a problem with my boyfriend not telling me things. We live together. All i ask is that he tell me if hes gonna be late home or is he going. (just so i don't worry) but he says that he should have to answer to me. but the ting is i don't care is he does go out it would just be nice to know!

2006-11-09 18:10:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

advice on relationship issues and they can get the same great answer a zillion times and they still do the opposite??? Why do they bother asking for advice.. what's the point????

2006-11-09 18:10:30 · 15 answers · asked by jojokiowa 3 in Singles & Dating

Anyone have any advice on including a kid in a wedding ceremony? I'm getting married in about 3 weeks, and we have everything lined up, except we'd like to include my 4-year-old son in the wedding in some meaningful way. He loves my fiance, they spend tons of time together and he's already trying out calling him Dad. He's helped with the shopping and wedding planning and is crazy about "all of us" getting married into our new family. So what's the best way to include him in the vows or some other part? Anyone have experience with this? There's no biological father in the picture or other kids to consider, so it's not the exact same thing as blended-family weddings, which I've seen a little advice on. Also, does anyone know of rings for kids for such an occasion? I saw Family Medallions but he doesn't like necklaces and wants a ring.

2006-11-09 18:09:55 · 16 answers · asked by SandyCheeks 2 in Weddings

Heres the story--
I am 20 the guy I am seeing is 9 years older than me, which is not an issue we are both at the same points in life. The thing is when we go out in public he always ends up feeling bad people say things like "why is she with someone like you" or they give him wierd looks & random people we do not even know have even went as far as writing REALLY BAD stuff on his vehicle & jumping him with baseball bats when we left the movies. I modeled for several years so I am a pretty girl, he is very good looking too if you ask me but the thing is he is overweight & thats why people treat him this way. This is the first guy I have dated since my husband passed away & I want it to last. I have 2 children he doesn't have any but he really loves my children & treats them like they were his & we have a great time around the house with the kids.
Hes the perfect guy for me I don't want him to get hurt because of me anymore, what should I do? I don't want him to go away because of this!

2006-11-09 18:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by Hot Mom 4 in Singles & Dating

ask "may we flirt" or something along that line out of blue?

2006-11-09 18:09:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 18:08:09 · 5 answers · asked by diamondcole25 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Gift in question: my sister-in-law gave us a gift, re-gifted from her wedding (my mom gave it to her), and we returned it since we had a better crockpot given to us. Obviously we can't say "gee thanks for the crock pot we returned."

What does etiquette say in this case?

2006-11-09 18:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7 in Weddings

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2006-11-09 18:06:27 · 31 answers · asked by monikp5836 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First off I feel a bit funny asking for help with this. Now let me get down to the situation. I work with a girl at work that I do like. Everyone in work obviously knows that I like her because I act so much happier when I'm around her. Now my friend thinks she likes me because she follows me around at work, but I think she does that just because she's looking for something to do at work. I make her giggle and all of that, but I can't figure out if she likes me or if she's just being friendly. I have her myspace/aim screen names but never had the courage to just say hi, I don't want to seem like the stalkerish type. I got her sns through other friends I have never asked for them. I am really shy and would love some advice, hopefully this is enough information so that someone can help me out. Oh yeah one more thing, everytime I look into her eyes I try to stop staring and can't sometimes I don't want to make her think something is wrong with her and that I'm only staring for no reason.

2006-11-09 18:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by neverbackaway 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 18:04:25 · 15 answers · asked by poorya_momtazfar 1 in Friends

2006-11-09 18:04:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy (briefly) a few months ago but really screwed things up fast because I went psycho with the hormones/b-control. My last "crazy call" was about 3 1/2 weeks ago. It's finally out of my system and I'm back to myself. I called him a few nights ago. We talked briefly (I woke him up). I didn't bring anything up because guys seem to hate that. I could tell he noticed I was back to myself. He accepted my invitation to get a drink after T-day. Is it a date? I'm guessing I won't know if it's a date until afterwards. Should I offer to get the check since I invited him? (We're early 30's).

Thanks!

2006-11-09 18:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by rhnotyouraverage1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 18:00:58 · 13 answers · asked by firefly06 3 in Family

My father has become the worst person ever.
For every little thing we do, he yells at us (me and my mom) and tells us to shut up and curses. If my mother talks, he gets mad. If she doesn't he gets mad as well. If she cleans the house, he gets mad. He's such an a**hole and I really hate him now. Every friggin morning I wake up to him swearing at my mother because of any petty little thing. There is no physical abuse (yet) but his behaviour is taking its toll.
He was diaganosed with cancer and I guess it's untreatable. I used to be afraid of him dying, but with the way he is treating us, I'm sorry to say that it would be a relief at times and I hate myself for thinking like this but what am I to do? He is soo mean and I cry a lot because of the way he treats us. He would never go to seek counseling because he doesn't speak English good and he's always bottled up his bad feelings (with everyone including us until recently). And my mother is taking all this crap from him because she

2006-11-09 17:59:58 · 10 answers · asked by Jellystar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the prob is i wont be der on my bf's b'day.. i wanna surprise him in advance. we'll have to meet on sum public place since we both stay in hostel wid frnds. can anybody sujjest me wat surprise can i give him??? or wat kinda gift can i give him?? my budget is around 1000 Rs. Some thing dat'll really make him feel happy.pls do help me sunn

2006-11-09 17:59:18 · 12 answers · asked by diku 1 in Singles & Dating

how much would you charge?
what kind of shoes would you wear?

2006-11-09 17:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by Batson D. Belfrey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 17:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by Viola Shumski 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know its not just the first person that has actually made you feel that way? Dont you think maybe more than one person can make you feel that way? (That you can fall in love with more than one person?)

2006-11-09 17:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by WiseWisher 3 in Singles & Dating