Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

This girl emails me and bascialy she ask me if I like her. But i don't say i do , till she says she likes me. But then, when I tell her I like her she clams to of played a joke on me. But she clams to feel sorry for me, Until she's trys to make herself fell better but claming she used to be like me , but now she's better. Then i talk her into a corner after she says she gonna lose some weight ( shes not fat) and gets her braces off she won't be a dork. I tell her, 'if your not a dork you just know it, you don't have to validate it' . The she sent a extremely angry email and deleted me from her friends list. And today she requested to be my friend( and she forwarded a email containing a love poem, that has a chain letter condition of 'If you forward this to somebody you'll have something tell you they'll be with you for ever' good happen to you. AND her myspace status turn from in a relationship to single. I think she likes me, but I'm not sure.....

2006-11-09 17:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have this friend that i love to talk to. We have a lot of fun together and he makes me laugh. He really wants to hook up but im just not attracted to him. Well last night we got really drunk and hooked up. So today we had to meet up because i left my id in his car and he wanted a "goodnight" kiss. I kinda joked about it and said no. I dont wanna lose his friendship but i know he got hurt. what do i do???

2006-11-09 17:36:59 · 6 answers · asked by Toy 1 in Singles & Dating

i just started seeing this guy about a month ago.so far,at first,things were really great.but now,i've been worried like crazy that he's going to leave me.
when we're together,he's really good to me.he treats me with decency and respect.and he shows me a lot of attention and affection.but my problem is,i feel like he doesn't really care sometimes.he has issues of his own that he struggles with.and he has a problem with anger and hostility.
he doesn't take his anger out on me.he just makes comments about other people,that aren't very nice at times.he has gotten kind of snippy with me,though.he explained to me,that he's not trying to hurt me.it's just he gets in these moods where,he's projecting things from his past,onto present day occurrences.the pain of his past,still hurts him to the point,where he gets angry and frustrated.and i wish he weren't so angry,i wish i could help him,to feel better.but what can i do?even though he says he loves me,he still has this hurt inside him.

2006-11-09 17:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Miss yavatar girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy who won't stop making fun of me. How do I stand up to him?

2006-11-09 17:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he has diabetes and we are worried he could get a stroke. he did not know his mouth got like that untill someone seen him. he talks fine, but we don't know if it has something to do with the diabetes or it is coused by the change of temperture, or something else. we know people who had this problem and their mouth went back to normal, but because he has diabetes we are concerned. please help sonia

2006-11-09 17:34:17 · 4 answers · asked by sonil92337 2 in Family

i loved that girl and i dated her for 6 months. i proposed her to have sex and she never call me any more. i did not see her any more. unvisible for 15 month. 2 weeks ago she called me and said: buy for me a new celphone and we will have sex. i am confused...does she love me or she just want money? she is 18 and i am 22.

2006-11-09 17:34:04 · 9 answers · asked by lionceau 1 in Friends

how do i make up for being a horrible father to my girls so they dont hate me(i think they probably do) please dont be sarcastic this is very serious to me

2006-11-09 17:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can be on the computer, shopping or at work and be happyit seems but when my husband is involved he is always controlling and brings me down. What should I do?

2006-11-09 17:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by sis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 17:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay guys and girls, my best friend just got a new boyfriend recently. The problem is, he's one of those pathetic, love-sick idiots who just gets all "I'm so into you" with any girl he meets. I love my best friend to bits and we're extremely close, but how can i tell her that her boyfriend is an idiot without hurting her feelings. More importatnly, how do i deal with him in social situations when i totally hate his guts? Serious answers would really be appreciated

2006-11-09 17:33:07 · 19 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Singles & Dating

i loved that girl and i dated her for 6 months. i proposed her to have sex and she never call me any more. i did not see her any more. 2 weeks ago she called me and said. buy for me a new celphone and we will have sex. i am confused...does she love me or she just want money? she is 18 and i am 22.

2006-11-09 17:32:20 · 12 answers · asked by lionceau 1 in Friends

i would say no, but i'm a guy so what do i know. i'm noticing more and more guys (casual observation at the gym) with shaved chests and goop in the hair. is there a "men's grooming" movement that i should know about?

2006-11-09 17:32:15 · 15 answers · asked by pot paw 2 in Singles & Dating

Just a few days ago my husband announced to me that he wants a divorce. Now the past few days I've been in and out of feeling really hurt and upset to the point where I feel sick to my stomach, and feeling like I'm ok. Is this normal?

2006-11-09 17:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by shenab99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well someone gave me this address about open body gestures that girls give to guys when they like them.....but im not forsure so i need help.

Heres the site
http://www.becomeaplayer.com/bodylanguage.htm

So if you can go there and read them, there halfway down the page, and post back about them it will help me alot

2006-11-09 17:31:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have no idea at all.

2006-11-09 17:31:09 · 1 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 17:30:26 · 20 answers · asked by Fariha 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is 49 years old, I am married and 25. My wife and I are trying to have our first baby and my mom has mentioned that she is too old to be someone's grandma.

She says that she doesn't feel like she has the time to be a grandma because she likes to hang out with her friends and live her life. Now she has a new boyfriend that she spends every waking minute with so I rarely see her.

I don't want her to take care of my baby, I just was hoping she would be a grandma to my kid since my dad is dead. (My parents divorced way before he died).

I am her only child so my kid will be her only grandchild. I know I can't force her to be a grandma if she doesn't want to be one, but what do I do?

Can't she live her life AND be a grandma? I don't need her help with my family, I just wanted her to be somewhat involved.

What do you think?

2006-11-09 17:29:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well this question is for the ladies I think it's almost the most common one for guys....

See my question starts like this I'm 14 in grade 8 and I know this girl
and she is really flurty with me we can like talk on the phone for hours on end and we still together on the bus and we say we love each other.....

I just don't know if she likes me because she is a flurty person in general and well give me hugs and stuff like that so all i'm asking is what are some signs that a girl likes you.



Thanks' guyz

2006-11-09 17:27:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am usually able to determine
if I would like to make things last with them
within the first two dates. My problem is with
the girls whom I just wish to be friends with or
even just put behind me, how do I let them down
easy? I don't want to be a jerk or burn any
bridges, but how do I get them to STOP friggin'
calling ME! This is especially difficult after
being intimate with a woman. Some pointers and
examples of tact in this situation would be
greatly appreciated! HOW DO I TURN IT OFF,

2006-11-09 17:27:44 · 11 answers · asked by hard_long76 2 in Singles & Dating

I just had a general question..Iw as seeing this guy..and he would always call me all the time, and from time to time he;ll tell me that he's too advanced for me, and that I'm too slow..for him, and when ask him slow how , he doesn;'t really expalin..so what di you all think?

2006-11-09 17:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is 3,and there is never a time that people on the street don't notice her.People will take fhoto of her and touch her alfro hair and tell her that she's pretty.At times i feel like i'm a mother to a superstar.I'm so concern bout how she will behave when she's bigger.Sometimes she is sick of the praises and will give one look at strangers.I'm so worried bout her character.Will she be spoilt?Anyone who experience this,do you have any tips on how i can train her to be more polite?and how can i bring her up with grace.

2006-11-09 17:26:33 · 3 answers · asked by ike mie 3 in Family

Love at first sight? After the first date? First month? Who can say how long it takes, when it started, and what "caused" it?

2006-11-09 17:26:28 · 8 answers · asked by jae 2 in Singles & Dating

hi, i recently broke up with my ambivalent bf who has lots of hang ups, and so the other day, we got into a fight. (long distance) he called me, he kept on shouting at me, telling me how BUSY he was. and making me feel like I was just an extra in his life. he kept manipulating me, then being really nice, then treating me like im nothing, then making it up on me, then blah blah blah. he's got no balls from being a good and honest man. so i went home, talked to my mom and bestfriend, and finally, i realized how he played games on me. but now, i wanna forget him, get a new life. and move on. but in his case, he still sends me text msgs, pretending that nothing happened. pffff... i hate this guy... what was i thinking? :(

2006-11-09 17:25:01 · 20 answers · asked by cutesy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a really good friend who really wants to go out with this guys... who just hapens to be the same guy i want... shes really tomboyish and wouldnt be caught dead in girls clothes and so not alot of guys like her and this might be her first chance with a guy.. but it would also be first chance.. do i go after him of wait until my friend has her chance?

2006-11-09 17:24:58 · 2 answers · asked by bobbybrown 1 in Friends

Have you ever wanted to just leave your body and see first hand what people are saying about you when you aren't around...? Have you ever wanted to go back in time and fix something that you know...if only you had stuck up for yourself..things would different right now..? I wish I could go back in time...and take another road..I would change so much...I wouldn't have fallen for the guys that I have...I would stand up for myself..I don't feel sorry for myself..because..where I am right now...in life..is because of what I did in the past...I only wish I could know what things would be if things went differently...the thing is..the things I want to do...I can't...because things have gone far too long the way they are...for example..I can't be borthered to tell my friend to treat me differently..because she has treated me this way for three yrs..and I don't think she is going to change...for example she is still talking about me behind my back..and when we hang out..she acts like nothing

2006-11-09 17:24:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-09 17:23:44 · 21 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Friends

I am getting divorced but still date my husband to see if we can mend things or to comfort one another. I am sure this has happend, but yet it seems very out of the norm.

2006-11-09 17:23:36 · 4 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want you to drink me

2006-11-09 17:23:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i was at this formal dinner last night, we had a reception in the lobby, there was plenty of beautiful women around and i was with my buddies having a good time there was also a photographer that was taking pictures of all the groups that were there and he had an assistant. i thought she was the cutest thing so i talked to her few times and she even let us in front of the line to take pictures. when me and my buddies were going off to dinner i asked her for her number and she gave it to me and said she will be waiting for me to call. next day i sent her a text message saying hey, she sent one back to me and i asked her if she knew who i was, no answer, i called her few hours later and got her voicemail, left a message and still no call back. my question should i call back again or she just changed her mind? we live around 100 miles apart but i dont see that as a problem

2006-11-09 17:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by bobo_74133 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I tell if he's interested in more? I introduced myself to this guy and he seemed surprised. After a couple of days he started to say hi to me first or get my attention then we'd make small talk. I think he knew I liked him since I always used to say hi to him and smile and make the eyes at him. Now he comes up to me in the library and we make small talk and he'll come say goodbye to me before he leaves if he's sitting near me but how can I tell if he likes me the way that I like him? I really dont want to just ask him out myself

2006-11-09 17:22:00 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating