how do i make up for being a horrible father to my girls so they dont hate me(i think they probably do) please dont be sarcastic this is very serious to me
2006-11-09 17:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
learn from your mistakes and consistently try to do things with them and take them places, quality time.
2006-11-09 17:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the mother plays a big part in this because if the mom tells the kids bad things about the dad the kids will believe it and if the mom sais good things then the kids will love the dad so you should probably tell the mom to help you out on this one...my mom told me and my sister that no matter what he was our father and couldnt hate him...that we didnt have to love him but we couldnt hate him...and my sister is mad at my father but im not so i guess you just have to go in at it accepting that maybe only one will understand you and be happy :( sorry but if you were a horrible father you just cant come in and say hi im back! you have to give them time and maybe just be glad if they dont hate you :(
2006-11-10 02:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by madmandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act fast!
They are at a young age where you can mend their broken hearts.
Pick up the pieces and begin by telling them SORRY and that YOU LOVE THEM VERY MUCH!
There is a key:
YOU CAN TELL ANYTHING OR ANYONE YOU LOVE THEM...SHOW THEM...THAT'S HOW THEY WILL KNOW!
Remember: Keep your children your MAIN priority! After all, they did not ask to be here...They are a gift from God, take care of them better than you would anything else on this earth!
God Bless :)
2006-11-10 04:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know them, really. ⺠Help 'em out, respect them.. How were you a horrible father, anyways? Show them you care. WHATEVER YOU DO, NO MATTER WHAT; DONT OVER DO IT. Or do. Over do everything, blast your love at them, knock them over. Be honest, that's the most important thing.
2006-11-12 18:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Maziar S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi , just that you are asking for help shows you care . make a dad and daughter day out make a day just for you and your girls no brothers allowed! lol go to the mall or to the movies or some where that they like. don't be afraid to joke arrownd ! be silly show the women in side of you that you never knew you had ! lol ,hope this helps, God Bless !
2006-11-10 02:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Heather F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the book Discipline With Love by James Dobson. It's very, very good.
2006-11-10 03:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your problem is with the girls, but you should try to pay more attention to them. to know what they like and dislike, and offer them presents they dream about...ansd try to spend time with them in their favourite places (you can find those things by their friends or by their mother)...you can give them money, this always works..but they also need attention ;)
2006-11-10 02:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by ota marmota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know you really care and love them by saying it and talking to them. Just remember, you can't "buy" love. Stick by your faithfulness and don't give them any reason to doubt you. If you lie and cause them to disbelieve your intentions, it will have devastating results.
2006-11-10 04:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love them and be there when they need you. Never do anything to abuse them and protect them always from others abusing them.
2006-11-10 04:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
START NOW, BEFORE IT IS WAY TOO LATE. TREAT THEM LIKE YOU WOULD WANT THEIR BOYFRIENDS/HUSBANDS TO TREAT THEM WHEN THEY GROW UP.....BECAUSE FOR SOME ODD REASON, US GIRLS TEND TO FIND GUYS THAT HAVE QUALITIES OF OUR DADS.
MINE IS A DRUNK, JUST LIKE MY DADDY, BUT HE TAKES CARE OF HOME FIRST...JUST LIKE MY DADDY. TALL LIKE MY DADDY.NEVER EVER HIT ME...LIKE MY DADDY...GET MY DRIFT.
2006-11-10 03:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋