How can I tell if he's interested in more? I introduced myself to this guy and he seemed surprised. After a couple of days he started to say hi to me first or get my attention then we'd make small talk. I think he knew I liked him since I always used to say hi to him and smile and make the eyes at him. Now he comes up to me in the library and we make small talk and he'll come say goodbye to me before he leaves if he's sitting near me but how can I tell if he likes me the way that I like him? I really dont want to just ask him out myself
2006-11-09 17:22:00 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's just makinf friends. But I think you should ask him out if you really want to find out what he really think of you and make the next move.
2006-11-09 17:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he do this to a lot of girls or just you? just to his friends? It seems like this guy is starting to notice you, take notice in his response to what you say and do. Chances are if he's not interested in you he might be later and is trying to get to know you because he likes you in some way, maybe as a friend or maybe more, too soon to tell but keep your eyes out. You might just have to wait a little bit for him.
2006-11-10 03:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your off to a great start. Maybe if you spark a conversation about things you like to do outside of the "library" he will get up the nerve to ask you out. Heck, this is 2006 ask him out. Suggest something very causal and see what he says. Sometimes taking things slow builds a better foundation!
You're in a position I wish I were in right now!
2006-11-10 01:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by clickityclack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should rent an airplane and write it in the sky! Or would you prefer he just come over and throw his tongue down your throat!
actually, i think he's gay. how many guys would make small talk to a girl and then make an effort to say goodbye?
YEAH, I THINK HE LIKES YOU!!!
if he ever finds out that you never picked-up on the hints, he might dump you. LMAO
2006-11-10 01:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by leslie b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got one. If you ask him if he likes you, in a good place at a good time (hey, wear a cute outfit if you want), he may say yess. Make sure he is honest with you. And if you think he isn't telling the truth, just tell him that if he likes you you won't reject him but if he doesn't you are still friends.
2006-11-10 01:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by PoT_hEaD_lAdY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this: "Hey dude, I really think you're cool and want to go out with you. What do you think?" Then, you'll know, and it'll only take about 30 seconds.
2006-11-10 01:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be brutally honest....there is only one way you will know....just go talk to him (more than small talk)...who cares what happens after that...if he doesn't like you that way, so what...if he does like you that way then it could be the best move you ever make in your life....so why ask us.....pursue ....good luck....and by the way...i think there might be something there
2006-11-10 01:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by freezerburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that yes he likes you. try to put your self out a lil more and see if he do the same.
2006-11-10 01:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bet is that he likes you, go for it you've got nothing to lose. or rather than ask him out you could tell him how you feel, he will tell yuo how he feels.
2006-11-10 01:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by dundledee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him a note
2006-11-10 01:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by preynolds4481 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋